my gurl told me she was hungry so i gave her money for food,she ask me for a phone card the next day,so i gave her 20 dollars for it,the she said she wanted money to take pictures so i told her i didnt have it,what do i do?
2007-03-05 17:27:13 · 25 answers · asked by Trapstar81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but its not that much money,but she's not a gold digger i can tell bcuz we talked about it
2007-03-05 17:42:29 · update #1
and she's still in high school so she cant get a job rite now
2007-03-05 17:46:16 · update #2
tell her to get a job
2007-03-05 17:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Does your girl have a job? Well, traditionally men are the providers, but it is not an excuse for some of these gold digging women to be taking advantages of men. Do you ask for sex alot? Do you expect a hot meal everyday? Do you love her? How important is she to you? Is she the one you think you are going to be with in six months or a lifetime? Don't waste your time if you think that she does not have your interests in her heart! You will only regret it! Time is money!! And from your doubts you express, her time is costing you money!!!! TRICK!!!
2007-03-05 17:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by mackdingy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she did this from the beginning then you might have someone using you. If not then she like you paying for everything. You have to sit down and talk to her. Remember this might just be a run that she need some money for you now and might go further then that. What ever the reason make sure she know how your feeling while considering hers.
2007-03-05 17:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kain j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is using you because you keep on giving cash to her. a teszt that you can do to see if she really is for you or not is tell her that you cant help her righ tnow cause u have to buy a car for yourself, if she gets angry she is a gold digger- therefore not worthy of space on this earth.
so you keep giving or you show her you arent about $$- tell her no once in a while- she should have her own money either way.
trust me- you dont want to be a sugar daddy- it is an unhealthy role
2007-03-05 17:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she is a loser if she has to hit you up for 20 here and 20 there. What do you do? Make her get a job.
There is nothing wrong with you helping her out but make sure she really likes you and that she has something going for herself as well.
2007-03-05 17:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont give her any money for a while, say that you need it for your bills. See if she still wants to hang with you when she's not getting the hand out. If she's really in love and not with you for your money she'll still want to hang out, if ot she''l dump you like a ton of bricks.
2007-03-05 20:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get a new job so you have more money or another girl friend who doesn't just want your money. Maybe a girl friend with a job of her own.
2007-03-05 17:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with her becuz its pretty obvious why she's in the relationship.........she wants u for ur money.........if u dont want to just break up with her than set some limits...........tell her that u are willing to lend her money but not on any little thing...........make sure that she knows u have a problem............u have to let her know that if she is onlyinterested in ur monmey than u dont want a relationship like that becuz u want someone that can take care of themselves n not depend on u completely......just talk to her before u decide to break p with her becuz u never know......she might try to change but if she doesnt than drop her
2007-03-05 17:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter what she tells you, she's a GOLD DIGGING WHORE!!! dump her, before she uses you up all your money and dump you!
Come on now, even if this is how most relationships are (guys always pay instead of girls), she needs to know her limits on spending your money.
2007-03-05 17:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you ever heard of a GOLD DIGGER? Ya, and how does she treat you? Let me guess, she takes the money and bolts?
2007-03-05 17:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by M1963 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She definitely doesn't have good intentions. By the looks of it, every time she asks for money it seems to be for only her and not for the two of you.
2007-03-05 17:33:14 · answer #11 · answered by Ai 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋