OMG! there's this guy that is staying over our house and he went out with my sister (they broke up), but now he's trying to make a move on me. He asked me out and I said no, but yesterday he tried to kiss me, and I feel so awkward around him now - I don't want to say anything that offends him, so how do i tell him i don't want anything to do with him (more than friends) * But in a nice way*
HEELP!
2007-03-05 17:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by feusha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a nice way is to slap him gently on the face and call him bad boy. in few slaps he'll get use to it and maybe even like it. now, you start slapping him harder and start calling him stupid boy. in few more slaps he'll get used to it and maybe even like it... now, you can tell him whatever you want he doesn't care and you neither... and lived happily ever after.
2007-03-05 17:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you know what you need to tell him straight,he has just broken up with your sister,and now he's trying to make a move on you. I find that really disturbing does he think he is some kind of stud or something. I wouldn't worry if you are going to hurt him as he is not worried about hurting your sisters feelings.,
Not all men are like this are pigs,he seems to me that he is after just one thing and maybe he thinks that you are an easy target and he doesn't care if he hurts you or your sister.Kick him to the kerb you and your sister deserve much better than this.
Find a man that will treat you right not one that is going to jump from one women to the other. Women are people and we have feelings and want to have the respect from a man ,not to be treated like an object that can be tossed away like we are not worth anything. Good luck
2007-03-06 01:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him,,, Hey (his name), your a really nice guy, but you had a thing with my sister and I just wouldn't feel right get tin something going with you. I really think you are much better as a friend to me than a boyfriend. If he doesn't get the idea from that then you will have to be ugly to him. Some poor guys have a hard time taking a hint. Good Luck
2007-03-06 01:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell them that you only want a friendship with them, nothing more. To tell you the truth, I wouldn't even want to be friends with someone like this guy.
2007-03-06 01:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest about it
the truth hurts but its more acceptable than pretending to like someone you don't really have feelings with
and if u want report the guy to the police!!! thats ground for harassment :)
2007-03-06 01:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by angelgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, honesty never hurt. If you beat around the bush, he'll assume stuff.
How do you tell him?
Ahem... "Hey _____, it's cool hanging out but you were just with my sister and I'm not okay with you trying it with me."
2007-03-06 01:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by wireman1771 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know but tell me when you find out because I am going threw the same thing.
2007-03-06 01:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a guy (except a jerk-off) would make a pass at his ex-girlfriends sister anyway?
Tell him straight out, what's wrong with you? Don't you respect your sister? Then tell him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-06 01:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
2007-03-06 01:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus say.....ummm ur really sweet n all...but i tink it wud b betta if v cud jus b frds....
2007-03-06 01:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by dj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋