I got dumped!I feel soo stupid!
I dont know which is more painfull:
1)Being dumped by a girl you absulutely adore
or
2)Being dumped by the girl you absolutely adore, and having to say NO to someone else after that!!
I feel soo damn bad!!My heart hurts so bad.
I know I've given this sorta advice before,that "Its better you move on, than wish it never happened.There is someone out there for you!!"
But the hard part is acting it out after you go thru that!!!
The theory part is soo easy, but,Doing it practically is a Pain in my A**!!
Id put a bullet thru the head of whoever came up with the "dumping" idea!
I never thought It could hurt this much!!!!
All the other times, It never hurt as this time :I trully loved her!!!
2007-03-05 16:07:10 · 22 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welcome to the club bro. feel for you but on line just words have little power to help. but the 'feeling stupid' part is not in the plan. we are guys after all and even feeling stupid we behave like being cool and classy. men stay on guard for this principle. don't mess it up bro. cheers.
2007-03-05 16:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats ironic, same thing happened to me 2 years ago... 'cept i said yes to the person who asked me out after my dream guy dumped me (what an idiot i was). The worst thing I did when he dumped me was I tried to make him like me again and go out with me and stuff- it ruined any chance of us having a friendship and I ended up getting more hurt in the end.... so don't do that! Best thing to do is find people who you can talk to about it... kinda like what you are doing now. Whenever you think of her just let your thoughts out and talk to someone- I found that helped a little bit. It still hurt, but it relieved the pressure.
2007-03-05 16:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always easier to give advice of the heart than to actually take that advice when it happens to you. It can hurt like your whole insides have been violently ripped out of your body and left you there to bleed..........It's going to take a lot of time for you to heal and move on. It's not impossible, but it definitely won't happen overnight. Be strong! Be alone for a while. Keep busy and try to take the good and positive from it.
2007-03-05 16:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes love sucks, but know you can walk away a little wiser a little less naive. When you get dumped you learn to protect your heart a little better each time (for most people). Love is a drug and like all drugs their is the painful sobering up time.
2007-03-05 16:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does suck and it really hurts, but it seems like everyone goes through it at some point.
Moving on is always the easiest and best option, but it takes time and its really not fair to any girl that you date to jump into something too soon. Hang out with the boys alot and surround yourself with your good friends, soon enough you will find yourself back in the game. Thats what helped me the most anyways. Good luck.
2007-03-05 16:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite on occasion love hurts. i'm specific which you're a extraordinarily female too. have confidence in your self. From what I study on your digital mail he knows which you have thoughts for him. If he's persevering with to talk approximately this female it particularly is hurtful to you. in case you would be unable to bear to verify him while he talks approximately her. possibly your option is to no longer see him in any respect. If he calls you to fulfill up you may say which you're busy. you do no longer decide to lose him as a chum yet while it hurts that badly you are able to circulate on. i'm specific which you would be able to fulfill yet another guy which you will like too. those issues take time and that i understand you invested numerous time in him. possibly he will understand once you assert you're busy on occasion that he particularly cares for you extra. i do no longer understand for specific. yet numerous circumstances friendship does grow to be a romantic courting. on the different hand if it does and it does not artwork out you'll be able to sense humorous going back to the way it grew to become into formerly. you're genuine you would be unable to end him from having thoughts for this female. In existence all of us have numerous relationships with human beings. don't get your self ill over this guy. there are various fish in the sea. He might have the superb female in front of him (which means you and genuine now he does not know it). i'm no longer totally specific whether it particularly is achievable. go out inclusive of your acquaintances and shop busy. you'll be able to fulfill somebody that truly catches your eye. sturdy success of direction you may come to a selection what you opt to do. heat Regards Michele
2016-09-30 06:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of life, put a bandaid over your broken heart and move on. There really is life after heartbreak.
2007-03-05 16:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't handle rejection then you have a problem, so find someone else, but treat her better than the one that dumped you
2007-03-05 16:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it also hurts so much because u have this unconsciose belief, that you're never going to find someone as good, that you love as much. But just think you will.
2007-03-05 16:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..you probably need 2 put a bullet thru ur head, be a player, works good for a lot of people
2007-03-05 16:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋