I met a guy on the internet not a dating site either but anyway we have been talking to each other now for almost 2 months.When we first started talking I was in a relationship that was at it's end but I hadn't ended yet. He was separeted and waiting his divorce papers. We started out as friends. His divorce is final and I stopped dating my bf. He acted like he wants more but I'm not sure. We where suppose to met but something came up. He lives almost 450 miles away from me. He texts me everyday sometimes twice a day and they are always so sweet and thoughtful, but he never calls even though I have told him to. We still talk on line but not as much as before. I'm to afraid to ask if he want's more i don't want to scare him away if that isn't his intentions, but then again I need to know. I would rather have him as a friend then not have him at all. Is there away I can get this information without him knowing that is what I want to know
2007-03-05 15:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by happy_cute_mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Cute Mum!
Well, It seems like the guy is just got out of a rocky relationship, Id be very surprised if He wanted to rush into things with you.
Its sorta like Jail.If you get out, you dont wanna go back.Well,never mind my example, It was a dumb one lol!
All Im saying is, You gotta let him know your stand.Tell him that he'll have to make up his mind, and the sooner the better.
Tell him exactly what you told us:That you are afraid to scare him away!
You see, guys are swept away by words like those, It will make him feel wanted, Esp now that He is coming from a torn marriage.
Its obvious that he loves you.
HELL!!! l know Id never call a girl twice a day if she was just a friend!!!He is just maybe shielding his heart, so that It wont get broken again like it already was by His ex wife.
We all need love, I HOPE YOU WILL BE LUCKY ENOUGH TO FIND IT!
All the best...
2007-03-05 15:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you know for , real if what he is telling you is all true. not a good idea to get involved with someone over the computer.it is not a safe thing to do. he doesn;t call you so why? you told him he could. what is he hiding? he could still be married. meet guys close to home, that you can see and get to know. please don;t meet him, as you dont really know him, he can tell you anything. read the papers and what happens to people meeting people on the puter.
2007-03-06 00:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't talked to him live on the phone I would be a little cautious on his intentions. get him on the phone and engaged in a live conversation before you pursue this any further. That is my intuiton and advice from what you've said.
2007-03-05 23:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wildflower Mama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is prepared to travel 450 miles to meet you he sounds pretty desperate.
2007-03-05 23:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont do it
2007-03-05 23:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Monica C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋