My best friend went out with this guy but broke up with him after a week. I had a little crush on him when I met him, but he set me up with his best friend. I'm falling for his friend now, and my best friend doesn't care about what I do, but now her ex, my boyfriends best friend, told me if I wasn't with his friend, he'd go out with me because he likes me a little. Now I'm confused, very confused. I think I'm starting to like him, and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I like my boyfriend, his friend, or both of them. It doesn't concern my friend, but it certainly concerns my boyfriend and his best friend. Someone help me! What should I do!
2007-03-05 15:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god! This IS crazy! Well, I think that it was kind of innapropriate for your bff's ex to say that to you when you were going out with his friend. but what's done is done and he's prob not a bad guy. My answer is probably going to drop any respect for me you had to zero but which one's hotter?
actually just give it a few weeks, you and your bf will probably die down and see what's going on then.
2007-03-05 15:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kuminatano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you had said... Your best friend went out with your current boyfriend's best friend and broke up in just ONE week... And it is HE who set you up with his best friend...
And what the crap~ He later he said he likes you a little? It simply reflects on what a personality he have... Perhaps he's just jealous of what his friend have and he currently don't?
I think you should seriously analyse the character of both guys before you even say you like anyone... This is my advice for you. Good luck! (:
2007-03-05 15:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by GL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you aren't ready for a boyfriend even though you want one. That isn't a sin. You should enjoy dating and resist the urge to be possessed. You can date whoever you want and not make any commitment at all. It used to be the norm, and why it isn't anymore is beyond me. Now you go out with someone, kiss them and you're practically engaged. That's insane.
2007-03-05 15:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your not the only one confused. Maybe you should just start over with someone thats not the friends best friends boyfriends cousins dog that lives across the street from the fat lady who waters her flowers at 11am in the mornings grandsons sisters cousins uncles ex-wifes neices half brother from kansas.
2007-03-05 15:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, don't go out with the friend. It wouldn't work because your ex would always be around and it would be awkward. The feelings you think you have for him are mixed emotions. If you really sit there and think about it, you'll see what the hell I'm talking about!
2007-03-05 15:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by I?basketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, try and find out a little more about the both of them (though, I believe, better the devil you know than the one you don't!) and then make an informed decision. Be honest to yourself and both of these men.
2007-03-05 15:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you are beginning to fall for the friend. I say give it a chance. If you don't you'll always have the question "what if?" in the back of your mind.
2007-03-05 15:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm. well you should try and sort through ur knot of feelings and get down to the bottom line, are you happy with ur relationship now or do you want more? if you are happy then stay with ur current bf and leave his friend out of it, but if you want more then go out with the other guy (you also have to consider that by breaking up with one guy and then going out with his best friend, that could destroy their friendship)
2007-03-05 15:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now stop freaking out, are you just excited that a whole bunch of guys are into you or do you actually like one of them? pick the one your into, not the one that has teh most of will make the most people jealous...
2007-03-05 15:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard decisions+becoming a nun=problem solved
2007-03-05 15:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋