Ok, Im really scared right now, my girlfriend and I have been going out for a couple months now, and we really like each other a lot, and Im crazy about her, but 2day when me and my girl were writing back and forth on my space she said that shes been getting missed calls on her cell the past two weeks in the middle of the night and she said that she finally answered it to see who it was and she said it was her ex, she was like yeah we talked and he was mad cause i was talkin to him like a friend, thats what he gets for breaking up with me ...... Should i be worried. Im really scared and insecure because this happened to me before where my last girlfriend got back together with her ex. And i really don't want to lose this girl I love her like crazy . What should I do? please help. I mean I'm thinkin that she won't get back 2gether with him because she brought it up like it was nothing, and she didn't hide it from me.
2007-03-05 15:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by 619 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her and reassure her how you feel about her.
2007-03-05 15:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by anthonyjthan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't see that she has a good guy in you then she deserves an a*%@ hole like him. But really there is nothing you can do if she wanted to get back with him,like if she made up her mind. The fact that she told you that her ex had been calling is a good sign that she doesn't want him back, if she did then she would have been protective of it and not told you. Just keep your ears and eyes open and don't be blinded to thinking it's all perfect.
How about you calling the guy and telling him to lay off and leave your girl alone. Ask her first before you make the phone call, or you could ask her to tell him to leave her alone. I personally don't think she should be friends with her ex as it looks as though he likes her a lot and was mad that she was talking like a friend. But I really think if you guys don't want any problems then she should tell her ex to not bother her and don't call her. I hope it works out for you and she doesn't break your heart.
2007-03-05 15:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you don't mind her talking to him. but if he starts to step out of line then you need to base your opion on that. don't allow her to meet him alone at first. Cause trust me guys do try anything to get a little attention from an x they haven't seen in along time. Just try to be there for her. Not only in this issue but in others too.
2007-03-05 15:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by JoJosGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to bare bad news but sometimes girls bring things up like it is no big deal so we can easy you into the end without trying to hurt you.. You need to sit down and talk to her about things find out how much they are talking tell her how you feel about everything and see where it goes.. Good luck
2007-03-05 15:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell your girl how you feel and see what shes says tell her that you are insecure and scared that you are in love with her and see what she does good luck
2007-03-05 15:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she trust on u... and the love is really strong.. means that no matter what u will win... but u better make sure that everythin is giong along good... in another words.. don't be jelious or stern to gurls bcuz u may be in trouble to lose her.. and well.. only if she trust on u.. and u on her.. there is no problem.. bcuz.. that shows a real love...
2007-03-05 15:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by jjgv2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your girl and just talk with her about the situation, try not to get jealous. If you see things changing in your relationship confront her about him.
2007-03-05 15:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by gobabygo1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she's telling you what's up and not being secretive. She is sharing. keep on doing what you do to make her happy and stay very cool about the ex thing...........remember, it will be her choice not yours to pick it up again................good luck
2007-03-05 15:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo stop bitchin. if she really wanted 2 b back wit da bull she would have already. stop girlin, she all urs
2007-03-05 15:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by playatm25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, screw her EX!
2007-03-05 15:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋