I think nobody under then SUN likes me. I am not a bad female. I am worried that ppl around me are unhappy abt me. i really need to talk to someone who can really consel me & correct my mistakes. I think I will lose my life if I live in an environment like mine. I request that somebody, a reliable psychatrist or real good person, should help me. Even my husband does not support me anytime. he only wants his prents & always feels his parents are correct always. I am helpless & feel left alone. They say am adamant, rude, stubborn, arrogant & what not. I doubt if I am really like that. I really doubt if I have only enemies arounf\d me. Do I really have frinds. I have a couple of ppl around me in my office with whom I always interact. They could tell what I am. I was in love with a guy before marriage but for some reasons we did not marry. He is so sad that he missed in me in his life. When some ppl like me why not my in laws & husband. Pls somebody advise me clearly.
2007-03-05 15:35:03 · 6 answers · asked by Evas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey, if your husband doesn't support you then he is not the right partner. YOu need someone that you can console with and is there to talk and comfort you 24/7. If he is just agreeing with what his parents are saying, then I'm sorry to say this but you didn't marry a Man, you married a confused boy. However to support his side, his parents could mean everything to him - I'm vietnamese and it's cultural to listen to your parents no matter what - if you disobey them then you brought shame.
Anyways, if you ever want to talk and need a new perspective e-mail me anytime, I check my e-mail frequently. Just relax and take one step at a time =)
2007-03-05 15:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by asdf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing you have to remember not everyone is going to like you but it's a shame your in-laws are the ones giving you the cold shoulder. They will only show that they don't like you more if you show them that it makes you weak. Is this something that just happened or did they always act funny. What is going on with you hubby you have to let him know that you married him because you love him and if he wants to be with you he has to help you out and not make you feel like something is wrong.
2007-03-05 15:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by 2g4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people are treating you badly and your husband is even worse. If you can, move out and live on your own for a while. You can decide later what to do about your marriage but get out of there before they drive you crazy.
2007-03-05 21:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds u r frustrated !!!but y r u thinking like that??? if ppl say u r rude,arrogant..............n so u think to rectify urself then its allready a good sign.Sometimes we dont think what we say n do,n pretent to be right when we r wrong.My advice is try to b cool,talk wid ur in laws n a very soft n polite manner,give respect to them.(i mean try to change over all ur charecter)I know its very hard !!but give it a try.But if then also every thing seems to b same(their behaviour towards u)then Darling its not u !
its there fault.they should rectify their self.
2007-03-05 15:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's breaking his marriage vows by taking up with his parents all the time.You need a divorce. Hope you don't have any kids. Get out of that toxic environment.
2007-03-05 15:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your enemies to stick it where the sun don't shine and bid them farewell.
2007-03-05 17:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋