boy problems?

Question

So this boy has liked me for three years now. It wasn't until this year that we started hooking up. Previously, we had just been best friends-even though he liked me the entire time . I would never give him a chance. Anyways, we never established the fact that we were going out, and i hooked up with two other people. When his friends told him, he acted like he didn't care, but then the next day he told me that 'he couldn't beleive what i did' and told me not to talk to him. Then, he blocked me on the computer and refuses to speak to me. He has done things like this similiar in the past, where he has blocked me, but then evenutally hast told me that he was happy that i came back to him. Do you think he still likes me? What's going on right now? What should I do..?

Answer 1

Yeah, classic guy move. We in fact stole this from girls. Don't worry about it. Act as if you don't care about it, because if you do. He's in control. Give him time and again he will realize that he still likes you since he has for the last three years. Be 1 up on him at all times, I can't stress enough how you should act as if he blocking you and not talking to you doesn't bother you in the least.

He'll come back, just wait it out. Next time, tell him that "we weren't official"

Answer 2

Yes he probably still likes you that's why he's acting this way. If a gu really doesn't care then they will show it and not in little kiddy ways as this. I have a boyfriend who does the same stupid thing and it's for attention regardless of what people say they care and guys dont like to show that.

For some reason they have set up in their minds that showing hwo they really feel is girlie and uncool. Give him some space for a while. That's why you tell a person from the start how you really feel about things. If you were to say to him in the start that you only wanted to be friends then this would have never happened, but your a girl and that's our nature.

Dont stress over it, it's not worth and nor healthy for you either. Enjoy your time try to talk to him about it in person just do it when he's alone that way he's hisself as you stated above that with his friends he acted completly careless. Guys are like that, you dont want to try and be smart and say anythig about it in front of everyone. Maybe you two can sit down at lunch and express your true feelings.

Remember as a friend your open and HONEST you didn't do this, but not because your NOT a good friend, but because you made a mistake. Look at it from his point of view how would you feel if he had did that to you? It's okay though just forgive him as well as yourself. If you need any more advice come to me my email is [e-mail] my name is Steohanie.

Good Luck and do what YOU know is RIGHT.

Answer 3

i could say he is being immature, but that it would be hard to blame if especially if he feels too strongly for you, right now he doesnt know what he wants, and its better if you stay away from that topic, the question is also left and the answer is in your hands, do you love him, why find the need to block him out, are you both scared, what is the truth , what do you really feel for him, if you love him, all youve got to do is to show him to stop the mystery and the craziness, but since neither of you want to clear this up it would continue, someone has to make a decision here, are you asking this because you know deep within that you love him too>the answer is in your hands, yes he loves you , he just doesnt know where he is in your heart, thats why he wants to block you out, its too hard to accept sometimes that even though you love a person that much, that they wont love you back
if by chance you dont love him set yourselves free by ending the connection

Answer 4

So when you hook up with someone on an ongoing bases then it means nothing??? I can totally see how he is hurt and mad i would be too. Just because he did not say will you be my g/f doesn't mean your not together.. And in his eyes and everyone elses i am sure if you liked him like you are acting you do by hooking up with him you would not be with anyone else.. He feels like you lead him on and played him for a fool!!

Answer 5

Don't go out with him, if you are not attracted to him. You guys should never gone out, it's a lost friendship. Well try sending him letters or a card saying that your sorry. Do you like him? it sounds like you really care for him. As a boyfriend or just bestfriend?

Answer 6

I'm proud of him. if he keeps blocking you than he's real good guy with princples of a man. give him few days or weeks and if he still keeps distance better cheer him for doing the right thing.

Answer 7

I think he like you but possessive thats why he doesn't want you to go with others...
And even if you fall in love with that person you might loose your freedom since he wont allow you to have fun with others
Good Luck

Answer 8

he's a jealous boy
leave him
you made it clear that you just want to be friends
if he's trying to make it look like something its not, screw him
and its none of his business whether you go out with 2 guys or more.
he's your FRIEND ONLY

-Kpop Singer

Answer 9

I think he still likes you but at the same time is mad because he thinks that you're playing games with him and not taking him seriously (which could be true... I don't know, is it?)

Answer 10

stop treatin him like dat.. he isnt a doormat.. grow up.. he was tryin to be totally mature bout it but all da same u hurt him.. so if u dont like him leave him.. maybe it'll hurt him now but its better than killin him slowly in da long run..