i just had a fight with a girl whom i was recently involved with. she told me she doesnt like me at all anymore more than a friend where days ago she told me she'd always love me no matter what. we were together for about 1.5 years. we've had fights before about 2 times that she said she doesnt love me anymore but then a week later she said she was just upset at the time. i mentioned those times to her but she said shes serious this time. she might just still be upset but i dont know for sure. i was just wondering from the ladies out theres experiance, is it possible to just stop loving someone completely within a couple days? or is she just really upset about our fight? thanks for any answers.
2007-03-05 15:27:09 · 6 answers · asked by soccerplaya113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God, talk about over drama. Can't stand people like that. But i'm sure your girlfriend is a great girl, sorry. Tell you what, I live in a girls dorm and i can tell you right now, they are overdramatic about everything in their life. Give her a few days and then make a REALLY nice sweet gesture like the ones you see in movies. Believe me, all girls love that, whether they claim they're still mad at you or not. If you really care about her, then do that and make her happy, even if she still acts mad about you.
About your actual question, i have personal experience with that. It is possible. Once i was dating this guy for the longest time and it turned out that he was involved with 5 other girls and I had no idea, I didn't love him anymore when I found out who he was and how he'd been using me. If it's that bad, I wish you luck but if it's not, give her a couple days and do the nice gesture. Believe me, you won't regret it. Make it big.
2007-03-05 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kuminatano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls play a lot of games before they figure out what they want in a relationship. It seems to me that she isn't really into the relationship and is doing you the best favor by being honest even if mean. The best thing you could do, whether or not you want to get back together with her, is to not call her or answer her calls for at least a week. Give yourself time and let her think about things. She'll likely come running back and then you have to decide whether or not you want to deal with the games.
She probably still does care about you, she probably does not want to be in the relationship anymore and figures that's the easiest way out.
2007-03-05 15:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by luvmypups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot just turn off your feelings sounds like things are not going to work out between the two of you and she has had enough. She is trying to push you away. She still loves you but just cannot be with you. That's the bottom line. you need to move on easier said then done believe me i know. So the answer is no you cannot just go from loving someone to hating them in a few days..
2007-03-05 15:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
some guys and gals turn their love on and off like water, depending on the current situation. then again, people say things they don't really mean what they say it anger. and also, when another says "we can be friends", or "i don't deserve you", they have already detached them self from the relationship already. i can't say which of these may be your girl. if you truly love someone and for whatever reason, the relationship ends.. the love lingers. unless the one you love has done something so horrible, it kills the love dead, becuz the person was nothing that you thought they were. for so few fights in over a year and that's the first thing she says to you, she sounds very immature. and she is not right to do that to you... your feelings. i hope things turn out the best for you, with or without her. i hope this helped. :) good luck!
2007-03-05 15:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman's fed up it ain't nothing you can do about it. It's a thin line between love and hate. I'm sure you heard those things, well they are true. I don't think she hates you. She probably does still love you, BUT it is possible to love someone and not like them. You guys have been through so much they she has trained herself for the pain. You might not get her back!
2007-03-05 15:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well buddy ,am not a gurl but i no wat u feel,thats y i wanna help u ...i broke up with my x-fiance 2 days ago too, for me iam totally over here,but she kept telling evryone that she still loves me no matta wat ,but we moved on both of us , we alwayz used to tell each other when we fight that i hate u and hate me and this bull **** talk, but we knew that non of us meant it, and every gurl in the world is gonna say dat 2 her b.f, just 2 lower his self steam and make him depressed,cause shes upset. gurlz use their emotion more than they use their brains,srry ladies but its very true, she doesnt hate u ,shes only upset of wat happened,and she will admit that later on ,anywayz bro, my advice 2 u ,is wat started wrong is gonna end wrong ,so if u keep having fights constantly, u gotta end it before u get envolved ;) and good luck
2007-03-05 15:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋