my man is lacking in sex department. its really small and i really dont enjoy sex with him. how do i tell him im not really feelin it(litterly) and i need him to wear some sort of extension?..i cant just say..baby, your dick is to small wear a strap-on. whats a nicer way to say it so he will try something new.
2007-03-05 15:13:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow.. is he even smaller than average? I would say just try to enjoy it .. throw in more forplay and mixes it up a little. Perhaps try taking it from diff position as well.. somewhere further north? Good luck! ;)
2007-03-13 12:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. I find that the best sex I've had didn't actually involve a lot of penetration. Expressing our wants for one another's closeness, touching one another, being playful in the most intimate of ways, and seeing each other have so much want made it all so awesome. Maybe both of you might benefit from experimenting and learning about one another's bodies and wants or desires, rather than just getting into it could enhance your experience. Denying yourself the feeling really will elevate it, and maybe then his size won't matter as much. Being too blunt might limit all of the above and kill his willingness to be truly intimate and have him limit sex to just getting in and out. So be careful. Good luck!!!
2007-03-13 23:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by stormc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes lackin, don't tell him, he will be crushed. Just talk about it and ask him what u do that pleases him the most. Then bring up what he does to u. Say u wanna try new things like toys or some thing (thats well in size) or u like it a lot when he does oral. Just be nice and make it seem like a casual conversation to just spice things up and make it kinky. This way u get what u want =)
Good luck
2007-03-06 15:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't know what to say either if my man had a small penis maybe you should just get into an arguement about it and just tell him that his penis is a tad small and you are not feeling it you are not being satisfied when both of you have sex or just go counseling about it maybe that would help.
2007-03-13 15:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything. Just focus on the good. How would you feel if he said "Baby, you're too loose and stretched out. You need to tighten up."???
2007-03-13 15:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋