Lets start with the past, I have been cheated on by every man I have ever loved or felt strongly for and the last guy that did it, did it with a co-worker. Now...the present. I am madly in love with my fiance. He is perfect for me, but we dont get to spend enough time with eachother due to life and responsibilities and as of yesterday, I started getting this bad feeling. I have NEVER been wrong when I have had a bad feeling and its all because He hasn't called me much in the past week, maybe once a day and I just miss him. He says works been crazy but I have heard that before in the past but what if HE is telling the truth... I am not used to being away from him so much and I fear him going to work....WHATS WRONG WITH ME!!! and the thing is, these feelings just started 2 days ago. I have trusted him to the fullest and now I am freaking out...all over phone calls. I know that trust is the key to a happy relationship so please dont tell me that...I am freaking out.
2007-03-05 15:12:42 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As someone that has been cheated on before, I can sympathize with your predicament. However, I vowed that I would not EVER let the fear of being cheated on paralyze me. Take a deep breath and rationally sort it out. Tell your boyfriend, rationally I might add, your fears. Try to remain emotionally together. You don't want to fall apart on him if this feeling you have is wrong. Tell him that you might need a little reassurance every now and then. Tell him of your past and how you are scared that he might hurt you in a similar manner. Above all, believe in yourself. Try not to obsess about this and get out of the house and do something that makes you feel good. Get a makeover, manicure, or pedicure.
2007-03-05 15:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by rotorhead911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not freeking out, honey, It's a "gut"feeling , that all women are born with, but not all women, listen to it, did you have this feeing, when the others were cheating on you?.... If you did than it's ( and I am sorry to say) more then likely happing again. The only thing I could tell you is to ask him, I know it's not easy, and he may or may not tell the truth, but that way, at least you tryed, and if all else fails, follow him, ( in a car that he doesn't know) for a day or two, if you find his is cheating cut the ties, if he is not, then is nerves over something else... GOOD LUCK GIRL
2007-03-05 15:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyesslc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's cheating. Honestly, a man that can find time to call you once a day- and you're worried about him cheating? Men don't have time to call every day. They don't even have something to say once a day. You sound a little clingy to me. Don't obsess. Whatever happens, happens. I seriously doubt that he's cheating though.
2007-03-05 15:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its skin. once you have been 250 lbs it stretched your skin and now which you lost it the exterior grew to become into so stretched its no longer able to circulate back to its generic length so which you're left with a pouch of skin which you in all probability won't have the means to eliminate till you get plastic surgical operation. it particularly is the case for numerous heavy people who lose over one hundred pounds.
2016-09-30 06:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all trust your first instints because they are always right......
2007-03-05 15:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋