ok, i want my aparents to trust me, but i dont know how.?

Question

heres the story, i want to go out and chill with my friends and almost every friday there out gettin high or gettin drunk. I used to go with them but now my mom wants me home every night at 11. she always makes the parents of the house im stayon at to talk to her. but thats not good because i usually sleep in a shed or something. once she let it slide and that same night my mom got a call from the cops and i had a curfew violation. so the trust there went down the toilet. then shes found multiple bongs, pipes, lighters, cigarettes , empty bottles of liquer, rolling papers and once she found my bud. they mde me get a drug test and i passed but also my grades a \re **** compared to the straight A's i used to get, they take me to counseling and i refuse to go , they think im depressed, and they are on first name basis with all of my teachers, emailing everyday.
also im only 15 and i wish i knew how they could trust me.

any help would be GREATLY APPRECIATED!

thanks

Fat

also, i have come home drunk and/or high a few times

Answer 1

Sober up and read what you wrote. If you really want your parents to trust you, you need to act in a trustworthy way that is respectful of them and of yourself. That means ditch the drugs forever. Ditch the alcohol until you're of age to drink. Ditch the friends that are leading you into these thing. Pick up the studying again. Go to the counselor and see if he/she can help you turn your life around. That's what you have to do to re-earn trust. Or you can stay on the track you're on right now and end up a burned out bum. Your choice.

Answer 2

Be thankful you are not my son, I would have two words for you: Military School.

Your past actions have proven that they are not right to trust you. If you want to try to start re-building that trust, start being more responsible, starting with your school work.

Get your grades up and keep your room clean, but above all find a better grades of friends to hang out with as your friends are losers with no future except asking "Would you like fries with that, Sir?" and if you continue to hang out with them, you will be also.