have you ever?

Question

been the one on the side?? (the mistress)

Answer 1

sorta it was like friends with benefits but he was also in a relationship.

Answer 2

I currently am the "one on the side". And I enjoy it immensely. True it is basically when he is available, but when I do get my time, it is well worth the wait. Not only do I get spoiled, but I know that there will hardly ever be an argument, we won't complain about who we spent time with, and I don't have to worry about washing his clothes.LOL In fact, he takes mine to the cleaners.

Answer 3

I almost was once. There was this guy that I was in love with in high school but he had a girlfriend and he had a baby from another woman. He knew I liked him but he was with someone else. Well he married the girl he was with and about three years later we ran into eachother at my brothers graduation. We exchanged phone numbers. Three days later we met up. I almost fell in love with him all over. He told me that he always thought of me and that he had only cheated once on his wife with a girl that looked like me. Of course I didn't believe that. Well we ended up spending two days together. He paid for everything that we did for those two days. I felt special. We never had sex alll we did was kiss but it was the best time I had at the time. He was stationed in the army in New York so he had to go back home, I live in South Carolina. He bought a calling card so I could call him for free. We communicated for a couple of months. Everytime I called he had been drinking a little. Eventually he told his wife that he liked me but didn't tell her who I was (thank goodness because we were friends in school.). He used to treat her so bad when we were on the phone like he didn't care about her. I felt so bad. Then he started acting a little bit controling with his wife when we were on the phone and with me. One day he said to me "You probably think that since I cheated on my wife that when we get together I will do that to you." Of course I thougth that but I didn't tell him that. The thought crossed my mind alot. I can't believe he actually said that. Well he had told me that a year from then he was getting out of the army and that he was going to divorce his wife and wanted to know was I going to be with him. If I wasn't he was going to move to Alanta with his cousin. The wierd thing is that one day he asked if I didn't be with him was there anyone else that I had in mind that I would be with. I told him the guy that I work with(now my husband). A month later my husband comes along and want to be with me. It took me a month to decide do I want to be with my high school love, the guy I work with or just stop dating for awhile and focus on college and a career. I finally picked the guy I worked with. I told my high school love that I couldn't talk to him anymore. I told him that I put myself in his wifes place and it hurt to think of another woman being with my husband. I wouldn't want anyone to do that to me. Plus, he seemed to be controling, seemed to be an alcoholic and if he did it to his wife then I know that I am no different. As soon as I got old to him then he would cheat on me. I didn't want to put myself in that situation. I deserved better than that. Well a year later came, I was engaged to the guy I worked with and my high school love came by (I worked with his uncle) and he was still with his wife. I was a little upset because what if I did wait for him but then I thought maybe because I stopped BEFORE I fell in love that they had a chance to patch things up and have a better marriage. I never wanted to be the second woman anyway. To this day, four years later he's still with his wife. I would have been a fool to think he was ever going to leave his wife. Now I have my own man and I'm not the other woman. Needless to say Please don't so it. It will come back on you ten fold if you do. Plus your better than that. You deserve better.

Answer 4

mister consider? I did once be 'mister' of a married woman lo... She's rich and was married and had children... Our 'relationship' last for about 2yrs+... Maybe I'm consider 'cheap'... haha

Answer 5

nope