Ok.. so i've been talking to this guy, Brian, for 10 months now. Everything seemed fine until last night when i got a call from his friend. His friend told me that Brian had spoken to his ex earlier that day and they all of a sudden got back together.. Brian's friend told me that Brian didn't want me to call him ever again. I don't know if I should call him or not. i'm very P.O.'d at him for this.. I just want to tell him off.. and I'm very confused and I don't know why he decided to go back to his ex (who cheats on him) after 10 months of me. He told me once that if he ever got the chance to be back with her then he would probably take it even though she did him very wrong.. he is hooked on her for some reason.. but things were going fine between us and he told me he really did like me. Even the night before last he told me he loved me before we hung up and was being all sweet. now the day after he does this!!?? what should i do?
2007-03-05 14:55:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know if him and his friend are playing some kind of a prank on me or what.. the reason i suspect this is because he jokes around alot about things.. but this has kinda went to far.. i think i should call him and talk to HIM HIMSELF instead of his friend because i need to get this straightened out. i will be pissed if this is all a joke cuz i was really upset last night...
2007-03-05 15:35:09 · update #1
I would call him and get the info straight from him. First of all that is cheesy if he broke up with you through his friend and you deserve better than that. Try to talk to him and see what he has to say. If you don't hear back in a few days, let it go, he is so not worth it.
2007-03-05 15:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks that girl is the love of his life.....there's not much you can do. It's understanding you may feel somewhat used, but at least he told you before that if he ever had the chance he would take it, so this didn't come as a shocker. Even though you feel terrible, don't be that mad at him he was honest with you when he could of lied. He shouldn't be saying I LUV YOU, when he doesn't mean it, its obvious he luvs this other girl. Call him and ask him what's going on, you can't be sure about anything until you talk to him.
2007-03-05 23:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex is comfortable...probably a little better in bed too. Don't underestimate the powers of oral sex. But seriously I'd just let him go...if he's willing to go back with his ex after 10 months with you then he isn't worth it.
2007-03-05 23:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by dwayman1978 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
betch slap him! Tell him off. Walk away. Move on in life. 4 simple easy steps. U deserve a man who loves u and wont love u for a shet bag like that (Mocking "Kelly" from shoes on youtube)
2007-03-05 23:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.... forget him!
If he really likes you or is sorry or whatever, he'll make an effort to at least explain.
That was messed up what he did.
Don't call him or anything, avoid him and see what he does. That would prove for itself how he feels about you.
2007-03-05 23:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetely call him. but dont lash out on him, that will ONLY make the situation worse. call him, ask him if what you heard was true. it will mean something to him if you take his word, not his friends. try to find out whats going on in a calm way. if he is with this girl, find out why. hope everything works out. good luck
2007-03-05 23:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by gurly gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋