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All we do is fight and when i tell her we need to break up she says she can't be without me, i tell her that she doesn't need to be where she's not happy, and I've done everything i know to make things better but nothing works. Also she has cut herself alot before and she scares me with threats about her not needing to be by herself cause she doesn't know if she'll do it again PLEASE HELP

2007-03-05 14:53:23 · 8 answers · asked by rebeleyedguy 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't be bother if you're girl threatens you to commits suicide because she will not do it. It's only her way of keeping you. But if you two are not anymore at peace with each other, then your mutual feelings are also suffering.

My boyfriend has the same story as yours, he has a girlfriend before me but time came when he already wants to call it quits as he doesn't love the girl anymore. the girl threatened to commit suicuide which makes him worried, but he doesn't love the girl anymore and if he decides to continue his relationship with her only because of threat, then they will both suffer. What he did is he talked with her and told her that it is not impossible for her to find the right guy mentioning her qualities. He made a firm decision, he broke up with her. It wasn't easy at the start with lots of crying and threatening, but eventually she learned to accept it.

Until now, the girl still lives..and moving on..

2007-03-05 15:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by shaina 2 · 0 0

Yeah you need to get her some help. Committing her won't be a horrible thing. She will hate you at first but then she will be getting the help she needs and will forgive you. After her rehabilitation, if you still want to be with her be with her. Otherwise don't it's unfair to stay just because she's threatening to cut herself. I used to be the same way with my ex girlfriend. But now I know better.

2007-03-05 22:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 0 0

If you have tried to make things work and havn't succeeded then you need to end the relationship because it won't work it will just get worse. You can't be with someone that cuts themeselves that's not healthy. She needs to get some help, the kind of help that you can't give her.

2007-03-05 22:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please don't allow yourself to be held hostage by threats and by her own psychotic behavior. You cannot help her, not really. She is not healthy enough to be in a relationship, and that is what you should tell her. If you indulge her and stay with her, it will never, ever improve. Get out now, and don't feel guilty about it. You're not doing anything wrong by breaking up with her.

2007-03-05 22:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1 0

She needs help. Evidently, she is probably suffering from depression. Get her help quickly.

2007-03-05 22:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by GT-R 2 · 1 0

You gotta just cut her out...say its over...goodbye its not working, see ya, good luck...that simple...

2007-03-05 22:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by JP 4 · 0 0

Obviously she is just with you for the money

2007-03-05 22:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

BREAK-UP

2007-03-05 23:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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