I love my boyfriend very much, we both want the same things in life but we tend to get on each others nerves when we are together everyday all day. I know I want to be with him but ow can it work? Help?
2007-03-05 14:50:07 · 10 answers · asked by lostcause4luv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best to stay in seperate quarters for now if you get on each others nerves...not a good sign of lasting success
2007-03-05 14:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not think that you should live with him unless you are married. It's very nice that you love him and you have the same interests and all, but if you get on each others nerves that could get very annoying and it could ruin your relationship. And if that happens, then you will have to move out and have nowhere to live. I just don't think that it is a good idea...and living with him with also lead to very immoral things....and people, please don't give my answer a thumbs down just because I put a moral thing in it, because that tends to happen a lot.
2007-03-05 14:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think you should live with him. Then he will get used to that and never want to commit any further. He'll just want to play house. Plus if your already getting on eachothers' nerves that will only make it worse. Then it also all depends on how old he is. He might be mature for his age and take things seriously. Those things usually don't last either that or he'll never want to marry if it comes down to it.
2007-03-05 14:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think that you shouldn't move in yet if you guys already get on eachothers nerves. But if you really really want to it might get harder or it might get easier. I moved in with my husband 5 months before getting married and it was alot better. I think you should wait till you know when your ready.
2007-03-05 14:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both are happy, you should get married is best
moving into your boyfriend in 2 bedroom apt is not good option.
becuase my good friend had numerous arguement with his girlfriend often since they are together in same apt for 3 years in few months later he dumped his own girlfriend.
I felt sorry for both
2007-03-05 19:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your married to live with him. If your serious enough to move in with him consider marriage.
Most couples that live together don't spend all day long together. Figure out what it is that bothers you and whether it is systemic of character trait that you don't like in him or if your just crabby etc.
2007-03-05 14:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, as long as you split the rent, the bill, the food, the utility, the shopping, and the vacation in half and pay your rent, car insurance on time, I don't see any problem with that.
2007-03-05 14:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
u can move if there 2 rooms ( u can start by this ). And make rules in the houses.
2007-03-05 14:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by nevivanova 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
lol
it'll never work. forget it and move on. find someone that you can get along with.
2007-03-05 14:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it works for me because my girlfriend and I hardly see each other, thank God!
2007-03-05 14:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋