OK, my brother married a woman about 1 year ago. And she is a B and everyone hates her the whole family! She is just one of those really really really annoying people. But here is my problem i just found out this weekend that she was recently engaged to another man while with my brother. I don't even know if he knows should i bring this up and should i talk to him about it?
2007-03-05 14:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by Ann G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is no longer engaged to this other man.
2007-03-05 14:48:55 · update #1
I don't think he will ever leave this woman. So is telling him just going to hurt him?
2007-03-05 14:57:29 · update #2
Ok to clear it up she was engaged WHILE married to my brother and had this plan to leave him for this other guy!
2007-03-05 20:56:28 · update #3
Make sure your brother knows. My brother has been married for 18 years and I wish I had told him the truth about his wife. Now they have three kids and I am just going to keep my mouth shut. Another reason I am going to shut up is because my mother knew these things too and didn't tell my brother. She has passed away and I would never say anything that would give him even a hint that my mom knew too.
Tell him now or else you will be keeping your mouth shut for long, long time.
2007-03-05 21:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of all the talk and gossip about her, don't you think that your brother would have found out that she was engaged before him?
If your brother is happy with her, do mind your own business. She is now married to him and he is married to her. This isn't any ones business now, but his. So stay out of it. You are just going by what other people said, are there witness? If there aren't any witness to come forward, then there you go.
Your brother is going to find out for himself by living with her and being married to her. I really think that now she is a part of the family, you and the rest of the family should start showing some respect and be polite.
2007-03-05 16:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, With the trusted Family Members
2007-03-05 15:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT interfere in your brothers marriage. That will be the quickest way to loose a brother. Alot of times we don't like the people our siblings marry, but we have no say in it. He must see good in her, he married her. Trust him, and just be there if he needs you. Otherwise keep it to yourself.
2007-03-05 15:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by anncinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you love your brother you'd tell him so he can move on with his life.
2007-03-05 14:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to not say anything, about this, she was
engaged, but she marry your brother, and he may all ready know
this.
2007-03-05 16:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eek, this is a toughy. i think its his wife's decision, but on the other hand, if i HATED her I would tell him...
on the other hand, i wouldn't want to hurt him....
but on the other hand I would tell him because it's his bisness,
so all in all I would tell him.
2007-03-05 15:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by james b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋