I have a very big problem. I'm turning 13 this month and I have loved this one guy since I was 4. He has a girlfriend but I dont know anything about it accept they have been together for longer then 8 months. He is the only guy I have always felt weird around my hole life. I have had two boyfriends and I dumped them both because of this guy. Should I tell him how I feel and if so what do I say?
2007-03-05 14:24:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Woahhhh!!!Thats a very long time since u started to lik him!But I think u should I mean whats the use of keepin ur feelins to urself,u never no he might startto lik u to=]
2007-03-05 14:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely definitely tell him.... I'm in high school and have had the same problem as you, I didn't tell him and I completely regret it. Ignore the posters who tell you you're too young to be asking this or too young to be in love because they're wrong--trust me, tell him how you feel. Just be honest and open with him. Whats the worst that could happen? You'll only regret it if you don't tell him because you'll keep wondering about what you could have or should have done. good luck
2007-03-05 22:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by tulip987654321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. because if u have loved him your whole life, then he is the one. Also, if u have feelings for another guy, dont date other people, when u guys are going out, most of the time u will just think of ur lover.
2007-03-05 22:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by OMGosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... telling him now while he has a girlfriend will just create a rift between you.
I know it's not the answer that sounds right, but telling him may end badly. Just wait till he's done with her... or let him go. But i know letting him go may be next to impossible. So just wait...
You got a rough road ahead of you. Good luck :-)
-AOS
2007-03-05 22:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he is taken and you are sacraficing things for him, when you dont even know how things will turn out! Seems like you have two options.
1. Tell him and you will be surprised with what you hear.
2. Keep it in, and bottle your feelings up and be upset.
2007-03-05 22:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse Dear just go ahead and tell hum about ur feelings.
I think atleast he has the right to know what u feel about him.
its ok if he has aGF he didn't knew about ur feelings.
before its too late go and approach him and tell him what do u feel about him.
I am sure the response will be positive.
All the Best.
2007-03-05 22:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your very young and its very difficult not to be tuned into one guy but right now hes unavailable.i would wait and see if becomes available then tell him how you feel just dont lay it on to thick your both young with many years ahead of you.
2007-03-05 22:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, well. thats hard. i've liked my guy since i was 9. (13 now). but i finally told him in november. he let it slip like it was nothing. but i asked him in december if he liked me. we've just stoped fighting and i got a no. so i dono. try it. i feel more content even though i got a no. at lest i asked.
2007-03-05 22:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure..but trust me there WILL be 10 more guys after this guy you have those same feelings for...
2007-03-05 22:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL HE PROBABLY FEELS THE SAME ABOUT YOU WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR IF YOU LOVE HIM GO AFTER HIM BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES
2007-03-05 22:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋