I am 14
I crushed 1 guys heart, he was a very good friend,and i knew he liked me, but i dont like him! i am now goin with a nother guy and guy # 1 is jelouis, how 2 fix??????????
2007-03-05 14:12:26 · 13 answers · asked by *~Filthy Gorgeous~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your actions have consequences. You can't fix it.
2007-03-05 14:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone for now. when a girl hurts a guy, the guy doesn't want to hear from the girl until some time has passed and he's gotten some validation -- via ego stroking -- from other girls. When that's happened, he'll come to you; hopefully in a civilized manner. Since you were friends, you could gradually get that back. But that's only if you guy actually want that. Otherwise, just keep yourself otherwise distracted.
2007-03-05 14:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some space. You can't fix his heart, but if you try to back off a bit and let him get over you, it will be best for him in the end.
He might try to get into an argument with you. Avoid this at all costs. That leads to blaming, and won't solve anything. Just be patient.
2007-03-05 14:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he'll get over it. It will just take a little time. As soon as another girl comes along you're off the hook. You can't let yourself get caught up in his feelings. Although you may feel bad for him, it's nothing you can control. Live your life the way you wish by doing what makes you happy. Remember to be as kind as possible to him, but be sure that you don't lead him on. I'm certain he will get over it and both of you can move forward.
2007-03-05 14:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by don_megaWC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cant realy fix this one
but i can offer some advice
You probably dumped guy 1 for a reasson
and you dont know for sure that guy number 1 is jealous.
you probably have to explain exactly why you broke up
hope this helps :)
drawingnerd@yahoo.com
2007-03-05 14:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a hard situation,I hav had this kind of problems,but somw how you could try=)okay here's the thing he needs to understand that u don't lik him, not everything in life is going to be perfect,but just try and keep talking to him as though u care about his feelings;) hope it helps=)
2007-03-05 14:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have done it..there's no other way of fixing it's up to the guy to mend his broken heart. Soon he'll cope with it... Try to be a friend for him
2007-03-05 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by chiz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit him down and explain that you still like him as a friend and you dont want to loose him as a friend. make sure you are very sweet about it so he realizes you are an amazing person and you two are just not meant to be.
2007-03-05 14:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by styler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him know he is still special to you... just not in that way... i did that too and just relised what i could of done to not break his heart.
2007-03-05 14:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Sonia ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. but time will help hum. Just tell him that you will be his friends and that you care for him that way. if he willing was your friend them he will come around. Don't put yourself down.
2007-03-05 14:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋