What is the best thing that someone could say that would seem completely accidental (not set up) and make her feel great about herself and grateful towards the speaker?
2007-03-05 14:08:41 · 20 answers · asked by canislupus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To those questioning the idea of an "accidental" compliment (accidentally on purpose, I mean), I realise than an honest compliment is better, but I want something that isn't too obvious, that makes the girl feel good but without committing myself (early days...). I like compliments that seem unconscious as they don't seem like the person's gone out and looked something up, but rather seem to come from the subconscious.
2007-03-05 14:55:30 · update #1
It has to be meaningful and truthful, and most of all coming from your heart, your true feelings. If it isn't forget about it. However, you need to have her full attention first, otherwise she may not notice or realise or hear it, then, you will feel rejected. Be honest, don't deny yourself your true feelings. If you half-heartedly say it, she will think your just being polite, or else not really meaning it. You just need to feel comfortable in yourself about saying it
2007-03-05 14:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by LON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, slow down--what is an accidental compliment??? This is rather silly---you better learn how to be in total control of what you say---compliments are nice, in their place--should not have to give much more thought than making sure the statement is not embarrassing or totally off base---just say " nice job" or very inspirational speech---or, thank you for the speech--very well presented. Isn't that easy??
2007-03-05 22:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that's a compliment. On accident OR on purpose. Completely negate every bad thing that she says about herself. It REALLY makes me feel great when guys say nice stuff to me after I've just said something really negative about myself.
2007-03-05 22:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by rachelgsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to make it accidental? the best compliment a girl can receive from a guy is a sincere compliment. a sincere compliment include the really innocent ones like, i think you look pretty today.
2007-03-05 22:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any compliment that comes straight from the heart.
2007-03-06 02:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation and the mood. if the scenario is exciting and she excites your senses in terms of her look, cheerfulness or what she does, the compliment will come like a magic, trust me
2007-03-06 02:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by The AnswerMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could find a girlfriend as pretty as you.
2007-03-05 23:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so inspired to see you today. I want to do something good now.
2007-03-05 22:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything original. girls love originality cuz when you use already-established ideas, albeit they are sweet, we know that someone else came up with them and you are just using them.
2007-03-05 22:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Idk but i am a girl and i like it when if i say something like ughh i hate being this tall i like it when guys say no your not tall your the perfect height. or if i say i dont like my hair i like when guys say they like it. so pretty much just compliment us when we doubt ourselfs. i like it! good luck with that
2007-03-05 22:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋