I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. He lives about an hour away from me and also works 2 jobs. During the week he usually doesn't get home until at least 8:30 or sometimes even later. I do not get to see him during the week; only on weekends. We email each other, text and call etc. He also says he is planning on buying a house a half an hour closer to me. I just do not know exactly when. Probably this summer cause he lease ends.This all sounds so great to me. I guess I am just really worried that our current "weekend thing" will just continue on and maybe nothing will change to make things easier. I want to get engaged and move in that direction. I miss him a lot. I have been very supportive of everything and positive about our situation. I have not expressed any of my negative feelings or insecurites with him. I am not sure if that is the right thing to do. I don't want to put pressure on him b/c I love him. I guess I just need some advice. :)
2007-03-05 14:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be glad you HAVE a bf
2007-03-05 14:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by shine_on 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience is a little different - my best friend live halfway across the country, we see each other ever few months. But I love her to death and we talk almost every night. I was having some insecurities about our friendship a while ago and kept them to myself. The problem with that was she had no clue what was going on, that I even HAD these insecurities, but, from her side, I just kept acting a little strangely. Eventually we talked about it and pinned it down, and got into a fight in the process that could have been avoided had I told her what was up to begin with. So my advice is to tell him whats up, and tell him you don't want to put any pressure on him because you love him, but that you just want him to understand. Good luck.
2007-03-05 14:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you love this guy and plan to marry him, then you should feel comfortable and happy with him. You should be able to express anything to him if you plan to marry him. Love should not bring negative feelings or insecurities. If you have these, then talk to him about it. This will test the true love. See how he reacts and talks to you about it. If he reacts negatively or not how you expected, then maybe he's not so wonderful after all.
2007-03-05 15:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absence makes the heart grow fonder
2007-03-05 14:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋