Plz i am 13 and i have never had a boyfriend! I need some tips! And jst so you know i am very very shy!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 14:06:12 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont have to have a boyfriend. Just because most girls in your school have one dont have to make you have one.
Thats why a lot of girls are always end up getting hurt because they just go for a guy in a rush without really thinking about the real thing. If you just wanna have a boyfriend just to show it off then its easy flirt around with guys you like and hope that they will ask you out. And if you're desperate you gonna have the balls to ask the guy out. But I recommend that you stay single and focus in school and you never know one day out of the blue a guy who's really serious about you will walk in and ask you out.
TRY WAiTiNG
2007-03-05 14:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 13... let it go. I started having boyfriends at the age of 11 and sometimes it caused me more stress than I needed. You should focus on school and worry about the guys when you're a little older. I guess it's fun to have a boyfriend sometimes, but breakups suck and you're only 13, I don't see the point. Anyway, you didn't enter this question for people to say you're too young.
My tip... write notes. I'm incredibly shy too and when I got my very first boyfriend (age 11 through 13 I was with this guy and then a little at age 14) and when I asked him out I would usually do it in notes. It's immature but hey, you're 13, you're entitled to some immaturity. When I was around that age boys also sent me those notes saying "Will you go out with me? Circle yes or no". It's worth a shot I guess.
2007-03-05 22:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young yet - don't push it to be all grown up and doing stuff just 'cuz everybody else is. Take your time, enjoy being young - once you grow up, there isn't as many new and fun things to discover. It will happen, just be patient and find other more important and interesting things to do - like getting educated.
2007-03-05 22:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL...im shy 2 but i had a b.f. wen i was 13 also after da 8th grade in da summer
2007-03-05 22:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to guys hang out eat lunch just have contact before u go in for the prey (bf)
2007-03-05 22:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋