My bf and i have been together for 3 months and im pregnant with his baby. im 7 n a half months pregnant. i find his ex gf name in his recent calls on his cell phone. the longest call ive seen is 15 min. and he still has pictures of her on his computer and phone. im scared to say something because im snooping thru his things. also im in the hospital for preterm labor n hes still talking to her. help!!
2007-03-05 13:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Loveable! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were together b4 trust me i know who my babys father is
2007-03-05 16:44:01 · update #1
tell him that if he still has feelings for her then just tell him how u feel
2007-03-05 14:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to talk to him, find out why he is talking to his ex so much. Does he have a baby with her?..Or maybe they truely are just friends, it does happen.
But ask him directly..let him know it bothers you, and tell him why it bothers you. Do you feel threatned by her for some reason?
Maybe, just maybe, he is talking to her about his fears about having a a baby, but does not want you to feel scared by this either.
Just talk to him, let it all out..don't hold anything in, especially now that no matter what happens, you will both be parents to a new baby very soon.
2007-03-05 14:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty confused with the 3 months and 7 1/2 month pregnancy as well.
ask him straight if he is still talking to his ex. if there was reason for him talking to her then let it pass. you guys should have a talk about the limitations on talking with ex's or other stuff.
2007-03-05 14:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, for a better life with him and your baby, you should've made sure he's the right guy then gotten married and then pregnant. You always want to be married first! Just tell him that you found his cell phone, and you thought you saw a missed call from his ex and told him that you felt hurt still.
2007-03-05 14:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to him. that's the only solution i know of. if your pregnant then you need him by you side. 3 months together?? 7 1/2 months pregnant?? are you sure?? do your math...
2007-03-05 14:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask him if hes still talk ing to her. find out what the deal is if he wants to be with u he should not be talking to her. just right now dont stress out to much u dint want to put anymore stress on u and your unborn child ( could be a cause to premature labor) so calm down and ask him. come out cause r u going to live sneeking around like him. raise your child dont be a fool. u dont need him i have done it. now i am raising me daughter all alone and its better than being in that situation.
2007-03-05 14:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by amymamagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been with him 3 months and your 7 months pregnant.....that baby isnt his!
2007-03-05 14:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by peachesdeese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm lose him, he obviously doesn't respect you. there are plenty of good guys out there . my sister raised a son without the father and did a great job. tell him that he needs to choose you or her, and dont give him a second chance. remember, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-05 14:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by michael t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing.
Her.
EX girlfriend.
You.
Current Girlfriend/Baby's mom.
Ex Girlfriend. PAST
Everyone still needs to be able to talk to their exes.
Stop being insecure and talk to him if your nervous about something instead of being rude and snooping.
2007-03-05 14:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he is just cheating on you sorry !! but that is the true there is know such a friendship betwen ex`s
2007-03-05 15:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by sinner so what ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T NEED HELP YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO...GET WHILE THE GETTINS GOOD.. YOU'LL HAVE ENOUGH ON YOUR PLATE REAL SOON YOU DONT NEED THAT ****..
YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND DESERVE BETTER!!
2007-03-05 14:06:03 · answer #11 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋