your mom moves you away from your friends and family and the only place you have ever known, with her smelly husband, into the middle of the boonies and you hate it, because no one knows you nor do they want to; because everyone has known everyone for as long as they can remember;and you want to go home. Keep in mind my step dad is a smelly sweaty hoggish like pig who smellls like he never uses soap.
2007-03-05 13:58:55 · 4 answers · asked by Erin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is my 14 year old, please give me your advise.
2007-03-05 13:59:53 · update #1
Talk to your mom about how your feeling without calling her husband names and yelling. Maybe the two of you can can come to some sort of compromise. Like you can stay 1 weekend a month at a friends house(maybe less depending on how far away you moved). Or you can talk to your friends a few nights a week on the phone, ect. If you just talk to your mother rationally I'm sure the two of you can come up with something. And I know what it's like to be your age and have a step-dad, it's hard but just remember he makes your mom happy and she deserves to be happy. If you and he can't get along just be civil and stay away from him. You will be grown up and on your own soon enough wishing for the days when you were the kid and not the mommy of a kid. I know at your age your not gonna listen to me but I've been there and trust me it will get better. Try making new friends where you live now, it may be hard at first but at least you will have friends around to talk to and help you deal with your life. Good luck and remember life will get better for you, who knows if you give it a chance you may like living there and develop a great relationship with your step-dad.
2007-03-05 15:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In every situation try to find good somewhere. I know it can get hard but remember what the Word says " ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR THE GOOD TO THOSE THAT LOVE GOD, THE CALLED TO HIS PURPOSE ". Control yourself in your environment, don't allow it to control you....
2007-03-09 19:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a countdown till your 18th birthday
2007-03-05 22:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you need to do is shut stop crying stop feeling sorry for yourself and then buy a bar of soap for your daddy...
2007-03-05 22:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋