i am 18 and still a virgin. i want to save myself for marriage io think it will mean more if i wait. others say i am stupid and that i am missing out but i disagree. what do you think and do you think i am making a good decision??
2007-03-05 13:48:00 · 16 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a damn good thing to be a virgin at ur age.. its a special thing. So dont worry about what other think. More power to ya girl..and keep it going as long as u can 'cause ur future guy will thank you for it! ;)
2007-03-13 11:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you whether or not you are making a good decision. This is a personal choice and no you are not missing out. Doesn't matter if you do it now or if you wait. But from experience it is always better if it is with someone that you are emotionally connected to as well as physical. You aren't stupid. Don't let anyone pressure you into sex. You've waited this long, I say keep waiting. Cuz if done right when you start you won't stop.
2007-03-05 13:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by laedeb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YESSS YOU ARE MAKING A GOOD DECISION!!!! i wish i would've waited till i was older or even married..but i was just so curious into what other people were saying how it felt and i guess u can say i felt "left out" so i did it..i dont regret it, but at the end i ended up feeling like shyt...ur not missing out on anything!! and ignore them ppL..live ur life being different and the way u want too! y would u wanna be like everyone else?!? i hope u wait..;)
2007-03-13 05:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES!!!!!!im 16 and about 4 months ago when i was 15 i decided i was ready to have sex with my 17 year old(now 18) boyfriend.we both have been together over a year and are deeply in love.you always hear people saying that sex should only be when you both love eachother.theres so many mixed views about sex.my parents raised me to have sex when i was married and thats always how i felt.but i feel this is the guy im gonna marry.so i did it..we both right after realized what a stupid thing it was we just did and i wanted to cry.i had given away one thing i can NEVER get back.and what if he isnt the guy i marry? i will feel terrible because thats something i should have saved for my husband.its definitely changed me and he feels terrible.hes not the kind of guy who pressures you into stuff and could have cared less if we didnt do it and he regrets doing it cause its just something special that we should have saved.so yea...whoever hasnt given it up yet...DONT.trust me its so not worth it.
2007-03-05 13:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be very proud of yourself, I also think that will not regret it. Hope you take your time when falling in love. That he has the same morals and beliefs that you have. If you are saving yourself for marriage then expect the same from the young man you marry. God bless I wish more young ladies took more pride and value in themselves as you.
2007-03-05 13:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think is all that matters. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. I personally agree with your decision, sex just complicates relationships and trust me, if you find a man who is willing to wait for you, you have found a real man.
2007-03-05 13:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by melissa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, "Good for you" - this is a decision that you, alone, can make. do not let other people try to influence you, one way or the other. Saving yourself for marriage is an excellent thing to do.
Good luck.
2007-03-05 13:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck ya, the hype about sex isn't all its cracked up to be. Its nice and enjoyable, but truthfully it means more when you are with someone you love, and what better way to know that they actually love you, then someone who has commited to marriage with you.
Girl wait, its so worth it, I wish I had. And any man that truely would care for you, would respect that. :) good for you hun
2007-03-13 14:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm no if it is what you want to do forget what others say to you about it , believe in your own beliefs !! the time will come and i am sure whom ever the lucky guy is he will be grateful you waited !! stay strong plus believe me sex isnt all it is hyped up to be unless you find a person you trust and care about it isnt good sex anyways !! Dont listen to anyone that tells you how you feel about something is stupid !
2007-03-05 13:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by yoursandmine05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just told my baby cousin the other day that if its important to her than wait. hell you done made it 5 years past the normal age for loosing it so why stop now. stick with what you think cuz thats never a stupid action.
2007-03-05 13:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by lurch298 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋