In high school I was teased by some students including girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman or women I want and when I came back home I rejected and showed off those girls who teased me in high school that want me now. Is this cool?
2007-03-05 13:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never"cool" to be a jerk, no matter how crappy they treated you. I would, however, nicely remind them that you are the same person on the inside that you were back when they treated you as if you didn't exist... THEN, if they apologize, and you feel they really mean it, say something like "Well, thanks for admitting you are such a superficial and shallow person - have a great day!" Then turn around and walk away. REVENGE IS USUALLY HYPOCRITICAL - if you intentionally treat someone as badly or worse than they treated you, you drop yourself down to their level - in the WRONG. Two wrongs don't make a "right". Two bads don't make it good. If they DON'T apologize, just say "I have much better things to do - - see ya!!"
2007-03-05 14:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stoop down to their level. if they treated you badly you dont have to be nice to them but it doesnt mean that you have to be just like them.
they didnt expect you to be who you are right now but what if by the same motivation that drove you to improve yourself struck them as well and you end up liking them. (they didnt expect that they would like you when you were in high school right?)
you dont have to be nice to them just dont treat them badly so that they wont have anything bad to say against you.
2007-03-05 21:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Infernalis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are lowering yourself to their level. Be more mature and just be glad in the knowledge they are hating life....lol.
2007-03-05 21:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you are acting just like "they" did in highschool. Be nice.
2007-03-05 21:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. Why bother, they aren't worth it.
2007-03-05 21:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, revenge is sweet...as long as it's not harmful...which it isn't so carry on....
2007-03-05 21:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋