2007-03-05 13:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sagacity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ASK HER OUT! Trust me, she will likely be happy, though don't be surprised if she's surprised or defensive at first. Fat girls are just like other girls, only they sometimes have a hard time believing that anyone could be attracted to them and might think you're making fun of them somehow.
Also, quit calling her obese. Just tell her (when the time is right) how lovely she is (don't qualify it with "to me" either!)
2007-03-05 13:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date! This is no different for an obese person than a regular person, unless she is so morbidly obese that she cannot leave the house.
2007-03-05 21:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because shes obese doesnt make her any different. Ask her out just like a normal person. Hint: dont call her obese anymore.
2007-03-05 21:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is obese shouldn't matter. Through conversation. Say hi, try to relate. It isn't difficult don't worry.
2007-03-05 21:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dulce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree on what someone said about suggesting things to her to improve herself. Maybe she's happy with the way she is, if she seems confident then give her compliments because she will get the picture that you like her. Take her out to dinner somewhere and if she has a good sense of humor she'll probably joke about it.
Don't take her to Golden Corral.
2007-03-05 21:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good for you...
just dont hit on her, or be extremely romantic becuase she might think you are joking or something
treat her like a million dollars...and no, dont go spend her.....
just ask her on a date to the park, where you two can chill, but she wont be too exhausted, and dont take her out to dinner, shemight feel embarassed
2007-03-05 21:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by kat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend. Get to know her well, and who knows what will happen. Ask her to hang out one weekend.
2007-03-05 21:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by TINA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to icecream or something.
Just kidding.
It's the same as any other person.
2007-03-05 21:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accompany her on runs, and take her to the gym. Give her compliments on improvements.
2007-03-05 21:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because she's heavier doesn't mean she's any different than any other woman. Just talk to her like you would any other woman.
2007-03-05 21:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lily and Alex S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋