Everything seemed to be getting serious with me adn my bf and out of the blue he cut it off for no reason!!! Just saying we're not meant to be. I feel used and hurt... i feel like other girls always are the ones to dump the guys, but are there some girls out there that have been dumped lately? i feel like the only one...
2007-03-05 13:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the same thing happened to me. we we're talking about a future-- about getting married.. spending our lives together.
that was before he played the same card, and moved on to someone else. it took me about 7 months to get over it, but i'm glad i didnt spend any more time worrying about how i'm going to spend the rest of my life with out him. & i'm still breathing (imagine that)
i would have loved for someone to tell me i werent alone... and there'll be times when it hits you like iniial impact, and you wish you could go back to the way things are. Those moments dont start lessening & fading until a few months. The sooner you get out there & dont constantly think about him (even though it's SOOO So hard), the sooner you'll find happiness again.
trust me.
2007-03-05 13:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not...
I'm not a girl, but I know how you feel...
No, girls aren't the ones that always cut it off with the guy.....
I haven't been dumped lately but the all of the other times I had gotten dumped by the girl, and it didn't feel right because like you said,"used and hurt" is exactly the way to put it!!
Don't put yourself down....head up!!
Good luck!!!
2007-03-05 13:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been dumped but I have been cheated on.Most guys tend to pull away when things start to get serious so if he could not be serious in a relationship dont sweat it cuz there are many fish in the sea(i think the saying goes like that)
2007-03-05 13:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mexichica01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can assure you at some time in all our lives we have felt like you but you need to know if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be and you deserve someone special and your time will come and not all girls get to end there relationships ... guys can be heartless and non caring but if he didn't love you , at least he was honest with you alot don't get that they get cheated on etc so get dressed in the sexiest clothes you have got girl, grab your gfs and get out there your worthy of love it just hasn't found you yet :) luck *
2007-03-05 13:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by yoursandmine05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neon is a dick, dont listen to him. unfortunately, relationships often end without warning like that. its depressing and hurtful and you'll wonder for the rest of your life "why did it end" but hopefully the pain will eventually ease (i say hopefully because, despite what everybody says, sometimes it doesn't get better with time)
2007-03-05 13:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your thinking about it too much. if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt gonna be. your not the only one trust me theres much worse that happens in relationships.
2007-03-05 13:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by lurch298 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not the only one....there are gurls tat get bumped all the time....im a guy and i got bumped ....and it hurt...but i got over her and moved on and found the love of my life....
2007-03-05 13:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Albert360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post your profile at YoBling.
2007-03-05 13:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOURE THE ONLY ONE!!! HAHAHA
2007-03-05 13:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by neonsturm 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋