My girlfriend says she loves me, and gives me a ton of attention. But doesn't want to be romantic very often. She says I make her sore. Should I believe this?
2007-03-05 13:36:38 · 14 answers · asked by Joe T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she just wants to take it slow.
Really slow.
Give her time to loosen up around you.
2007-03-05 13:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Some girls just get sore very quickly, especially if they don't use lube. I suggest getting some lube and see if that helps and if it doesn't she might have a medical condition like endometriosis which could be causing soreness or cramping. Suggest that maybe she should go to the doctor and if she says its nothing or that she won't go to the doc, then you be a little cautious because she might not enjoy having sex with you. Maybe she's just not into having sex a lot.
2007-03-05 21:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were only two times this happened to me. One was after I delivered a 9 lb. baby and the other was when I had a raging yeast infection due to some antibiotics I'd been taking. Suggest she see her doctor for an exam. It could be something physical. If not, try a good lubricant.
2007-03-05 21:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to be romantic w/o being physical
2007-03-05 21:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a little more foreplay there speedy! You only get sore if it happens too quickly.
2007-03-05 21:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by JLB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol... Yeah believe it. I also think she needs to get over it. She is going to stay sore if she does not at least try...lol
2007-03-05 21:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
more foreplay. women will almost never feel sore if they are rightly pleased (save for those who have a particular condition where "it" wont open up)
2007-03-05 21:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obcourse you have to make her in the mood to be romantic ok..
2007-03-05 21:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it....ask her what you can do to help her so you can be romantic more often...
2007-03-05 21:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should and just ask her what u should do 2 make it more memorable and less painful.
2007-03-05 21:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋