I have been a nice guy all my life and it hasn't helped get one girl. Every where I go i see women talking about how much they want a gentlemen. But when ever i see a girl out on a date you all are with the cockeyest rude jerks in the world. Why don't you ever give the nice guy a shot????
2007-03-05 13:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) the "nice" guys don't usually ask us out as much. come on, there's a way to hit on a girl without being a jerk. try it.
2)we all have our flaws....yeah, one guy might be cocky, but another "nicer" guy might be something else not so great.
but, keep on being nice. don't try to change yourself for a girl, because a backbone is hot. don't worry about what some girls think of you. it's stupid. speaking as a girl...we can be really fickle and we don't really know what we want all the time.
2007-03-05 13:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ladies do not have a clue what attraction. Attraction isn't a choice. Your either feel it or you don't. Usually being a nice guys translate into being a wimp. Yes a woman want a man to be respectful and all that but she does still want him to be a man.
While you don't have to be the comedic review women do want you to be some what entertaining. Respectful yes and understanding. Don't be a yes man. Have you own point of view yet be tactful and considerate in your delivery style. Take the leadership roll but don't be a dictator.
2007-03-05 14:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are greater good women people accessible searching for mr. niceguy, than are adult men searching for the comparable in a woman. why? because of the fact maximum women folk people get caught with the cheaters, the liars and people that manage them like crap and it fairly is not by skill of determination. those adult men began as marvelous, yet ended up exhibiting their real colorings. no one needs somebody like that. in the event that they do, they have intense subject concerns. there are a number of marvelous single women people, nevertheless accessible. You perhaps searching for love in each and all the incorrect places or have an interest in women people that don't instruct you the comparable appreciate. i be responsive to a great sort of marvelous adult men, that come out on real and that i be responsive to some that are shy and a sucker for a exceedingly face & get injury everytime. perhaps you may desire to evaluate your self. anybody needs to do some soul finding faster or later. examine why it rather is occurring to you and then empower your self and make a metamorphosis. Being marvelous is a huge high quality and marvelous adult men do no longer end final, it fairly is the variety you experience approximately your self that's unfavorable.
2016-09-30 06:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by kelchner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those men that you see us out with may seem cocky and rude. Watch closely though, many of them treat us (JUST us) like queens and are asses to everyone else around them. We do want nice guys, but we also want someone who's not afraid to say no to us. We want someone who's willing to be the man in the relationship. The problem we find with 'nice guys' is that, no offense, they're wimpy. They never say no, they never argue, they cater to us, and that gets boring. It's great for a while, but it gets exceedingly annoying after a time.
2007-03-05 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like assholes. Because when you're in a social environment think about it... Say that out of all the people at the party there is a *****, a nice girl, a funny class clown girl, and a bunch of other girls. And after leaving someone says, "That funny girl said you were cute." Yeah that's nice, but if they would have said, "Hey that bitchy girl said you were hot." That's going to be a little better because you're going to be thinking, wow, that ***** said that about ME? Because it would have been harder to get that kind of thing out of the ***** than the nice girl or the funny girl, so it's better.
2007-03-05 13:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by mrmanseven 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?! Sometimes we go for 'cute'.Which ends up being fatal.They talk nice and get you hooked and BAM.Me,I end up getting into a fight with them and they can't handle the "bi**h".
I'm a little older and don't take getting messed with lightly!
You nice guys need to STEP IT UP A LITTLE.So we can bypass all the punks.
2007-03-05 13:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey, you just haven't run into me yet cuz i'd totally go out with you if you are a fun nice guy, i'm tired of the jerks, i tried going out iwth a guy that i THOUGHT was a nice guy adn he STILL turned out to be a jerk, i must be like a magnet for idiots. wish we could go out right now i'm lonely
2007-03-05 13:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we never know if the guy is a jerk or a good guy until the date.
2007-03-05 13:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cause it is hard to find these guys!
2007-03-05 13:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by Modern-day Ask Abby 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋