i've been in denial with my feelings for him and now i can't get over him.....what should i do to get over this?
2007-03-05 13:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why can't it go any further than friends? unless its a life or death situation i dont see why not. dont give no excuse about "just friends" or "its complicated"
love has no barriers! if you truly love this guy show him what you got!
2007-03-05 13:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem i like my best guy friend for 3 years....yes 3 (yeah i know) and the entire time i kept i inside and denied it. Now he's in a relationship with my best girl friend which sucks but now i have to let it go and it's really hard to release now after 3 years. So this is my advice: stop denying it. The more you deny it and keep it inside the more power you give it over you. You need to either tell him or talk it all out with someone you trust because if you keep the problem on the inside it makes it worse. And just to let you know talking to people you don't know online doesn't count. Lol i know I've tried it. You have to talk it out out loud there's actually a chemical reaction that goes on when you do in your brain kinda like crying. So yeah girl you need to talk it off then you'll be able to walk it off.
2007-03-05 13:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats a failure but a trial. Maybe he feels the same way and is just dying to tell you, but is just as much in denial as you are. It's better to fall for a friend...someone u can talk to, because as the years progress ur going 2 need more conversation
2007-03-05 13:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tanson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people go through this, but sometimes you have to sacrifice the things you love to somewhere in life. You should tell your friend how you truly feel and maybe, just maybe, your friend will like you more than friends. Try to be more lady like and try to make him want you more than a friend. Flirt instead of talking...You know? Just be yourself and tell him how you feel about him. It's the truth and the only way really. Good luck!
2007-03-05 13:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him,
who knows maybe he's just thinking the same thing about you.
The worst that could happen is that he doesn't like you back and nothing happens so thats the exact same as right now, you have nothing to loose.
2007-03-05 13:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it can't go any further? have you talked to him about it?
if he has a girlfriend or has blatantly told you that he's not interested in you like that, find someone else to be interested in. Find out how to appreciate him for who he as and not just as a potential boyfriend.
2007-03-05 13:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love with another boy, and think to yourself nothing will happen. Or, cut off all ties and remove all your memories you have of him. Moving on is the best thing to do.
2007-03-05 13:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i'm sorry, i'm trying to get over someone too and haven't found anything yet that helps....cry till you can't get anymore tears out then blast the radio and dance like there's no tomorrow. might help. good luck, hugz
2007-03-05 13:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to force yourself to come to terms with the fact that he's off limits. you may need to distance yourself from him a while, until you're over him romantically. check out other guys too; it helps get your mind away from him.
just wondering -- why is he off limits? does he have a girlfriend?
2007-03-05 13:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him about da way u feel trust me there iz no way of getting ova him no matter what u do. He iz still gonna be in ur mind so just tell him how u feel.
2007-03-05 13:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋