I am 6' 2" 38 yrs old pretty much in great shape, make a above average income, know how to treat a lady and have got nothing but rejection from every female I found attractive and approached. No cheesy pick up lines, usually after a brief conversation I ask if we could have lunch or dinner sometime. Never makes it past that. BTW yahoo personals dont even help.
2007-03-05 13:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by mike093068 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe your trying too hard.try flashing some money in their faces.that seems like thats the only thing they are interested in these days,and you dont want that.you want someone who likes you for who you are,not what you got.try getting a plain country girl.they will use you right.
2007-03-05 13:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of those stats that you mentioned mean NOTHING to a woman. To a woman it is about how you make them feel...what some people would call a "spark". I used to be like you many years back. I started reading self help books and found this material called Double your Dating written by David DeAngelo. The main gist of the material is how to find and attract women to you. Once the attraction happens, you are able to then carry out a relationship. That material changed my life and how I preceived dating. Now, 3 years later, I am married to a beautiful woman whom I love dearly. I hope this helps and good luck to you! Also, I don't know what city you are in, but there are definately cities that are more conducive to meeting women. Here in Seattle, there are like 1 available woman and 8 available men. In places like Austin Texas, the odds are much better. Even with this said, it is all about your GAME as to whether you can get the girl.
2007-03-05 13:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend less time here at a computer. Try starting with a friendship. Some women actually want to marry a friend.
2007-03-05 13:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you might be going for the wrong type of women.
the way it always happens is when you arent looking, you find someone. dont stress on it too much and itll happen.
by the way you describe yourself though, it sounds like your a little materialistic,.that doesnt help im sure either.
good luck man
2007-03-05 13:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by midnyghtcloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah man loosen up and quit worrying about it. im 23, 6"3, 255lbs, 5% body fat, and make great money; oh yeah im single. sounds like you might be trying too hard. just relax, most the time girls like a first date that feels like it might not be too serious cuz most of em dont like possesive guys and when you try too hard you give off that impression.
2007-03-05 13:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by lurch298 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being romantic and funny. i personally luv a guy that is romantic and humorous at the same time(even tho im 12).......most women find that attarctive 2. try to have interesting conversations that us gurlz understand, not boring subjects like politics and wut not.
good luck! xoxoxoxo
2007-03-05 13:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get its the same reason why I cant get a date.
2007-03-05 13:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try escorts they always say yes
2007-03-05 13:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by f d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋