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how do i tell my best friend of 15 years that im going to join the military. well ok she's like my sis and she does not wnat to see me get hurt so how do i tell my BEST FRIEND i want to join the marines. wothout hurting her?

2007-03-05 13:20:59 · 6 answers · asked by navy_girl 1 in Politics & Government Military

6 answers

If she is your best friend, she will be happy that you are doing something that will make you happy. She will miss you, but that is life, people move on. Your friendship doesn't have to end.

2007-03-05 13:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I have this problem, im hoping to go into the army soon and my best friend keeps saying i cant do it, because i wont be there for her or able to talk to her and she will never see me!
You should reassure her that you will be in touch as often as you can and tell her that this is your dream, if she is as close as you say she will support you in the end anyway.
Just remember that this is your life, and you cant put it on hold for anybody, because whilst you should consider other people in your life, its always going to be about you, and you dont want to be unhappy because you'll never be able to please everyone!
Good luck =)

2007-03-06 05:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by armygirl613 1 · 0 0

joining mariens will not hurt you, it hurt you if you go to infantry or any other front line jobs, but usually women dont go to front lines.

tell her that you are serving your country, and if she dont like that she is anti american, ( bit too far?)

or tell her that you will be in rear of the line, and is fine and ok, they treat you good and feed you good ( only marines good for, the food) so ok ish.

2007-03-06 00:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by cb450t 3 · 0 0

Just tell her - if she loves you like a sister it will be all good. She must give you support not grief! Good luck! HOO RAH!

2007-03-05 21:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by suzycrmchz 3 · 1 0

Take her to the recruiter with you. Maybe she'll join as well!!

good luck!!

2007-03-05 22:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Combatcop 5 · 0 1

Tell the truth, and then try to find a solution....

2007-03-06 08:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0 0

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