shes a lawyer cuz she puts down facts(false) to prove her case against me that states that im a bad person with fake proofs her tears drama blood pressure and dying threats of how she will die and she hates me and wants her son to agree with kicking me out of the house.im helpless cuz shes the lady who raised him shes his old family its her house im new he hasnt gotten use to me as hes used to her. his sisters get involved too tell him lies about me. i heard with my ears she complained about me later i saw him he acted normal didnt bring it up, i noticed him act very distant towards me b4 he used to look at me and care due to his mothers harsh complaints he has become a dry person towards me, i hate her guts do u blame me? how do i make him love me?
2007-03-05 13:09:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he refuses to move out he says he will never leave his mom dad due to this stupid thing traditions allow joint family
2007-03-05 13:21:16 · update #1
If he loves you he will be willing to take you and get your own place...No way can all these women live in the same house..Talk to him heart to heart about moving, if he really loves you and wants to make this marriage work...Sorry, but it is the best answer....you two need room and you need to get to know and love each other without interference...Learning how to live with someone is hard in itself...and when you have monster-in -law in your way...forget it...
2007-03-05 13:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. He didn't want us to move away and live our lives, which is the only thing I could think of to help our marriage. There was nothing I could do to convince him. We even had a daughter. My ex mother-in-law was a horrible mother for doing that to us. Later on in life, he told me he should of stayed with me and my ex mother-in-law told me the same thing. After I left, he wound up getting stuck with someone they all really hate, him, his mom and his sisters. Serves them right. It's too bad though because my daughter suffered because of it, being without her dad and all. I can't say I'm not a happier person for getting out of that marriage, I am sooooo happy and now I'm with the man of my dreams. Hang in there. Don't point fingers or blame, just calmly and rationally suggest that you two get away and live your lives. Hopefully, if you show him you're really trying, he'll side with you. Good luck!
2007-03-05 13:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad part is I hate mine too!!! SO MUCH!!!!!!! She claims to be trying to help me (help!) and comes over and goes thru my house and cleans. she always seems to find everthingi don't want her to...I am a mother of 2 15 mo. and 6 and I do keep my house clean! I just don't keep it clean ENOUGH! She does it all the times and I finally turned her into my enemy and made my husband see her for WHO SHE REALLY was and he was the WORST MAMMA'S BOY! She now kisses our butts trying to just hold onto him because she now knows I WIN!! We had a baby also made things more secure before aI booted her out of our lives to seal his fate! GOOD LUCK! Give me your address and maybe we can ***** and vent about it to each other because no one else understands why I hate her so much. She is such a pain in the ***. Now she's our Nanny and we live rent free in her home and I couldn't be happier. She hates it and I LOVE IT. She comes when it okay with me. We so have to talk! learn how to turn things in your favor USE YOUR SEX IF YOU HAVE TOO!!!!!!!! NO MAN CAN TELL YOU NO TO MAKING love OR A BABY. JUST TURN HIM ON AND ON TILL HE GIVES YOU HAVE YOU WANT AND DON'T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER!!!PROBLEM SOLVED!!!
2007-03-05 19:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to move as far away from her as you can and as soon as you can! She will ruin your marriage and put you into depression. Sounds like she can't let him go and wants to run his life.. Can you imagine how awful if you have kids? She would try to take over as their mother. I say RUN and take him with you. He will realize in time, it was the best thing he could do, or he will never grow up..
2007-03-05 13:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the facts convincingly and suggest your husband patiently to record the happenings in the house without anybody's knowledge.
2007-03-05 13:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by tsiva_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its quite difficult to comment with limited information available.
still its better to keep patience as ur hubby, i m sure, is not harsh towards u and loves u.
2007-03-05 16:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MOVE OUT, IF HE LOVES YOU AND STILL WANTS YOU THAN HE WILL FOLLOW, BUT DO IT ON YOUR OWN AND DONT TELL HIM. HE WILL COME TO AND WANT YOU AND TOTALLY APPRECIATE YOU ONCE AGAIN BECAUSE YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON AND WILLING TO STAND YOUR GROUND. YOU ARE OUT NUMBERED THERE.
2007-03-05 13:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum, either you 2 move out or you will.
'mother in law'----turn the letters around and you get HITLER WOMAN
2007-03-05 13:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋