theres this guy in my study hall class and he's one of my good friends. people keep saying saying "he's flirting with you" and "omg he's in love with you" and asking me if i like him and if he likes me.I always say as a friend or no, but the truth is i kinda like him a little bit but i dont want to admit it. If i keep saying no he'll think i dont like him and he'll never ask me out. But if i say yes everybody will start asking him out for me and he has a gf. And what if he doesnt like me. THIS IS SO HUMILIATING!!! HELP! I DUNNO WAT TO DO!!
2007-03-05 12:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Trisha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how u feel if he doesnt like u anymore then thats his lose or if u are scared wait til he asks u when he is ready
well good luck i hope that helped !!!
luv u trish
2007-03-09 10:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG OMG OMG! I am in the EXACT SAME SITUATION! How bizzare - Okay okay, so my guy-bff really likes me and stuff just like your guy does and the entire class is telling me how much he likes me, how cute we are together, ec, ect, ect. And I like him too, so the other day, I came clean and told him i liked him and he was WAY happy about it. And I kept from telling him how much I liked him because I didnt want him to ask me out, i just wanted him to still like me you know? But now, we talk everyday just like we always have, and I told him I dont want to go out just yet and he was okay with it! And after he knew I liked him he broke up with his girlfriend.
So my point here is that you should tell him how you feel and he'll completely go with it, even if he does have a girlfriend. It WILL work out. It did for me!
2007-03-05 21:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hunter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I go through the same thing. The best way to deal with the situation is to ignore the comments of others. Talk to the guy and see what he sees- in you I mean. Be very discreet and sensitive though bcuz you do not want to frazzle him. Admit that you like the guy bcuz you sound like you're in denial
2007-03-05 20:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kisha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate when people put me on the spot like this... if this guy already has a gf then i think its okay for you to say you only like him as a friend even if you like him a little bit because i think he will understand that you don't want to say you really like him since he has a gf
2007-03-05 20:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by co 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chill! dont say no and dont say yes. just smile :) if they press you say maybe... or I'm not telling. Wait 4 him to break up with his gf, and THEN you can admit you have a crush too.
2007-03-05 20:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask them kindly to stop. if they dont then get more agressive. but if you feel the need to give them an answer tell them youre not sure, or that its none of their business......or no comment....or i guess i you really like this guy you could tell them the truth
2007-03-05 20:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~JusLivinLife~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when people ask you if you like him, say "i don't know"- but with a smile on your face...or say, "maybe" lol, something like that.
2007-03-05 20:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy♥Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋