My girlfriend was suppose to meet me at a certain time. Then gives me a call and saying she was going out for a drink with her friend. I thought that would be fine and I would put our plans off for about an hour. Well, then find out it is a male co-worker and she was at the bar right down the street from you and didn't invite you. Then she ends up being there for 4 hours. She just swears she was catching up. I Don't know what to do or how to feel. I feel like a bad boyfriend that she would rather be with this guy instead of me.
2007-03-05 12:40:19 · 16 answers · asked by Blake B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My girlfriend was suppose to meet me at a certain time. Then gives me a call and saying she was going out for a drink with her friend. I thought that would be fine and I would put our plans off for about an hour. Well, then find out it is a male co-worker and she was at the bar right down the street from you and didn't invite you. Then she ends up never coming back. She just swears she was catching up. I Don't know what to do or how to feel. I feel like a bad boyfriend that she would rather be with this guy instead of me. I had to cancel our plans together too.
2007-03-06 02:48:00 · update #1
well, i'm a girl, but i have an opinion about this. ok, that wasn't right. don't know what she was thinking but i wouldn't do that to my boyfriend. the right thing to do would have been to let the OTHER person know you already had plans and to meet up some other time. no offense but yes, she screwed up and i would be PISSED OFF if my boyfriend did that to me. it's just common courtesy? idk some people lack it. anyway, tell her how you feel. she should understand that she should have done things another way. if she gets pissed off that you were upset then there's something wrong there cause i don't think she should have reason to be mad....i definitely understand where you're coming from. and in no way am i trying to be mean to your gf or anything. promise. i'm not saying she doesn't love you, i'm not saying to dump her, and most importantly i'm not saying to get back at her. talk to her about it and consider your relationship with her. you shouldn't be treated that way, no one should. it's mean? seriously. good luck. PEACE!
2007-03-05 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by 360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her|
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That is what I would say|
If anyone was your true friend, if they say that they are going to do something, they do it, if they say they are going to meet you at a given time, there are there on time| Of course, things can get delayed or somehow they might not be able to fulfill a promise, but that is the exception rather than the rule|
If what your girlfriend is doing is consistent, more than likely she is just playing you because good people who respect you have integrity and keep their promises, and she is not doing that|
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2007-03-05 12:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have plan this ahead, and she end up being with a male co worker. That put you in second priority. To me, I wouldn't be bother with her or need to hear any of her explanation. Why waste my time with her if she didn't care about my feeling?
2007-03-05 12:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from a woman.....She digs the other guy. Sorry about your luck. She's not ready to settle down and wants to see what's out there. The same thing happened to me, but then I ended up marrying my orginal boyfriend.
2007-03-05 12:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty insensitive on her part. you should talk to her about it if you really want the relationship to work out. but if you know that theres most likely someone better for you then just leave her. if she's willing to do that to you, id say she wasnt worth it. theres someone out there who would never even think of doing that. hope i helped! : )
hope everything works out for the best.
2007-03-05 12:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAWWIE!! come on now! u deserve better than her! jus.. if u still lik her, den watch.. 2 c wether she still do this kind of stuff 2 u.. n if she turns round, den maybe she was jus truely catchin up...
2007-03-05 12:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Toki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um drop her she will do hat if u marry her to don't let her make exscuses actions speak 4 themselves
2007-03-05 12:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same. Whatever's good for the Gander is good for the Goose.
2007-03-05 12:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your about to get dumped sorry..show her the same disrespect dump her without even telling her..play with her head now.
2007-03-05 12:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two trust each other then it really doesn't matter. I know easier said than done. Just ask her.
2007-03-05 12:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by cy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋