My ex and I ended for stupid reasons (we were young and immature) and I still care for him and wonder if he does me, should I ask him or leave it be. It has been several years since we were together.
2007-03-05 12:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by mandyb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't come out and ask an ex "do u still love me" after x amount of years lol but if they're on your mind after all this time then I would call them to see how they are doing and let them know that you have been thinking about them. there's no harm in sparking a new friendship. if he is single then that would be great but if he's not then hmmm a friendship is all that should happen and if he finds himself still in love then it was meant to be for you two.
2007-03-05 12:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. For example he already have a gf i think you should back off and if he doesnt have a gf well then you could ask him that question. He might still care for you if he already have gf but it would be unfair for the girl if you would just pop out of the blue and ruin the relationship.
There is a point in our life that we do love and just realize that we did something wrong when they are gone but we need to move on and be realistic specially with us girls we are so emotional and tend on holding back for someone we love. You have to consider other peoples feelings too and which is right and wrong.
Have a good day!
2007-03-05 21:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by chill25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open old wounds, trust me, he is your ex for a reason, just move on with your life. You don't want to be crushed if he told you that he didn't love you anymore...
Just know that he will always have a place in your heart and that it is just not going to work out if you were both are together again...
2007-03-05 20:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason girl....leave it be. It gets too messy with an ex, past issues come up, there is baggage....start new and fresh with someone else! Why set your self up for drama??
2007-03-05 20:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by paprbak-lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Do NOT reopen those doors.
YOU are no longer dating HIM. Even if it's been several years, don't reopen those memories with "does he still love me?"
If not, you're going to be crushed.
If he does, you're going to want to get into a relationship with him even though neither one of you is prepare or wanting one.
2007-03-05 20:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me too... i left my ex and here i am 7 years later and married, wondering what he's up to and would he come back to me if i were alone... i would... but not in so many words... just kinda discreetly... like, see if he'll just hang out with you again... good luck.. i hope it works out... i'll be missing and regretting probably forever..
2007-03-05 20:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by shiningstar1313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST RECENTLY BROKE UP WIT MY B/F IN DECEMBER FOR A STUPID REASON. I FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS STILL IN LOVE WITH ME. 9TIMES OUT OF 10 THEY CAN'T LET GO OF THE WOMAN THAT THEY CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY BROKE UP WITH THEM...
2007-03-05 20:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by passion4fashion07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well depends on how ya been in da past.. ya still talk? ya still cool? he saingle? he showed any signs he still have feelings 4 u? well if its all yes, den sure, give it a shot i guess...
2007-03-05 20:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Toki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still ask my x's if they love me still i usually get a good answer
2007-03-05 20:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by holly+******** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case you should.
You want a second chance and you obviously deserve it.
2007-03-05 20:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋