ok this guy he is 16 and at like church and youth things he flirts with me.i am 14.....i flirt back but...you know not in an annoying way....everyone i ask says he likes me soo.....
2007-03-05 12:33:57 · 13 answers · asked by ~* Confussed *~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attending "like church" services and "making a move" = mutually exclusive
2007-03-05 12:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move! Just remember the worst that he can do is say no. Sounds like you two have a lot in common. I might start out very slow, maybe see if you two can spend sometime outside of church together with no friends. Can you two go to the movies or mall maybe even watch a movie at someone's house? This would give the chance for the two of you to talk by yourselves without the influence of friends. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 12:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by surfjax32 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make the first move if he hasnt already. i was in a situation like that and it took the guy months to make a move. i know i sound stupid for waiting that long but it all turned out for the best. but if i could go back i would have just made the move. waiting is horrible. if you hear that hes interested then just do it. youll feel better.
2007-03-05 12:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately encourage women to ask men out. Its already so hard to make relationships work without waiting for the other person to ask. If he has flirted for a while and its clear to everyone that he likes you I say, show him you are mature enough to ask him out.
2007-03-05 12:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move. if you wait, he might find someone else or start thinking you don't like him like that. i know it's hard, it's hard for everyone to get up the courage to do that sort of thing. i got over it and did it. if i can do it, you can do it! i promise! you will feel amazing after you do it. you never know, he might say yes. the worst he can do is say no anyway.
2007-03-06 07:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by page starshiine.™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's a stupid question, why are y'all doing this while at a church youth group gathering. what kind of church is it. your missing the point, gods your main focus, not guys
2007-03-05 12:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so leave it alone and act your age, not to say your not but there is a lot more out there than some boy looking at you in church and at the basketball game....... and if your gonna take to him anyway then let him step up to the plate and be the man and ask you out...it builds character.
2007-03-05 12:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by beecharmed_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um your 14 i know hes 16 but i think you to young to be thinking about a 16 year old slow down and enjoy your life
2007-03-05 12:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, make the first move before you do not get another chance
2007-03-05 12:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move. Don't wait or he might start dating someone else.
2007-03-05 12:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋