So what should I do? This is mostly for people who don't aren't racist about other religions.?

Question

Well I'm a proud wiccan yet my parents dont know i have a myspace covered in wiccan stuff and that im even a wiccan. they are strict christians and would kick me out if they knew. yet my friends dad decided to find my myspace, print it out and hes going to show my dad!! what do i do without telling them either of my secrets? oh i have to figure out something by tommorow morning

lol i can hide from them but if they do ill stand behind it like i should

Answer 1

Write your parents a letter about this and then go for a long walk. If they read it, they'll know its something serious. Plus, the advantage of a letter is that they will calm down and not say something out of anger.

If it comes from "you" rather than the friends dad, they will respect you more. (You might want to put that in your letter as well. Say that I am telling you this myself because it is the mature thing to do and I respect you.) Tell them that you love them and be honest about your fears (being kicked out of the house.) IF they're really that stupid, you might point out that a teen on her own is likely to get into prostitution and you'd rather not do that and work out some kind of compromise and keep living at home.

Answer 2

Parents should ALWAYS know whats on their minor childrens webpages, esp my space. I sympathize with you, but it is very neglectful in this day and age for a parent not to be supervising their kids internet sites. Your parents will love you no matter what, hopefully. Maybe you should think about printing out material from the internet about what exactly it is you are into and what you believe. Make your parents comfortable with who you are. Don't throw any tantrums or call them names. If worse comes to worse you can tow the line while you live in their house and when you are 18 move out and be your own person.

Until then, however, every parent should know exactly what is on their kids myspace.

Answer 3

Its really strange that your friend's dad is doing this to you...he has no right. If he is going to say something and you are afraid of getting kicked out, maybe tell them it was a joke or something. But if you do not want to do that, then just be strong and hope for the best. Sorry I wasn't much help. I hope things work out.

Answer 4

hard to imagine the situation because I have never been in that kind of situation.

However the right thing to me seems to tell them like it is. If they really love you they will respect your decision. Refer to the Christ saying love your neighbor as yourself. Also this verse could be used: Matthew 7:9: Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? there is good stuff in Matthew 5, 6, and 7 which is really the essence of Christ's teachings.

If they are really christians they can't kick you out. It would mean that they judge you which is forbidden and so on. I fear tho that they are not true christians, loving, sharing, caring like Christ.

I have no idea if this advice is of any use to you. I understand that it is a difficult situation. You have my deepest sympathy.

Answer 5

Why should you be ashamed of your faith. If you consider it to be the truth, then go to your parents and explain it to them. I would recommend, however, that you be able to explain why you beleive what you beleive and be able to defend your position with logic, reasoning, and any manner of evidence you can bring up. Without a basis for the faith you have, your faith is only so much wishful thinking. Your parents will probably flip, but it they are going to find out sooner or later so might as well get it over with.

In the end, though, your parents will still love you. Hope it works out.

Answer 6

There's not a whole lot you can do since your friend's dad plans on telling your parents. The best thing that you could do and it's gonna suck but the best thing that you can do is tell your parents the truth and beat your friend's dad to the punch. It will be better for your parents to hear it from your mouth as it will be ten times worse if it comes from your friend's dad. I doubt that you could plead with your friend's dad not to tell your parents since he seems set to tell your parents. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 7

ok how old are you? well sounds like to me that this is one of those times that you are just going to have to make a decision. if you are wiccan and thats that, well face the consquences and be up front with it, honest and straight to the point. at this time you are living under your parents roof. You will iether have to deal with their deicision regarding your belief system, or go support yourself. I ask the question again how old are you.

Answer 8

It's called "coming out of the broom closet"
You will just have to fess up. Tell them your spirituality is the one thing that is totaly personal and they need to accept it. How old are you? You should also tell your friends Dad he is a busybody and has no right to stick his nose in to your beliefs.

Answer 9

I question your parents "Christianity" if they would just kick you out like that. There usually is no way around the truth. Are you committed to "Wicca" enough to suffer the consequences of being one? I would "come clean" with them and then ask for professional Christian counseling from a source not involved with your parents particular "church."

Answer 10

No, not racist considering it extremely is in line with their historical past and custom, and pores and skin colour. non secular subjects are approximately discrimination, not racism. it somewhat is stated as non secular discrimination. In severe circumstances the place violence is in touch it would be stated as non secular persecution.