I was just wondering about this so if u wouldnt mind answering the questions
Would you let them go to a strip club?
Would you really not want them to go but let them make the decision?
Would you not care either way?
Would they not even think about going to one so you dont have to worry?
What would you ask/want them to not do?
Are you having a Bachelor/ette party? Will it be wild? Will you have strippers/ go to a strip club?
Thanks!
2007-03-05 12:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband has gone to about 4 of those stupid things. I hate it. He has offered to skip them and stay home, but I don't want his friends to think He's a wuss and his wife controls him. I know he loves me, and wouldn't do anything wrong, I just can't stand the idea of a naked whore parading around in front of my husband while OUR money goes into her underpants. I think those places should be outlawed so that we don't have to even have this debate anymore.
2007-03-05 12:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely let him go to a strip club. A private stripper would be a whole different story...but the strip club is totally fine with me. However, we don't have any on this island, so it's not a problem!
I am having a bachelorette party, and no, there will not be any strippers or strip club visits (my little sister is the maid of honor, for goodness' sake!).
2007-03-05 12:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by trillian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't want my fiance to go and I told him that. Lucky for me it wasn't important to him. He went to a cabin with his buddies to go 4-wheelin', drink beer, and play poker. If you feel strongly about it I would tell him. They don't read our minds well or take hints. I wasn't worried about him doing something "bad" but I didn't even want him to be put in a position where something could happen or his buddies could push something on him. Mine was more "wild" because we were out and about on town and in bars but no strip club or anything like that. I think you can have a good time without the strippers. Where did that come from anyways?? Why does a guy about to get married need to see other naked women?!?!?!
2007-03-05 12:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..My boyfriend goes to strip clubs..it doesn't bother me. However, do not let the strippers go to his house or his friend's house! It is much safer if they go to a club as opposed to hiring the strippers for a "private event." I have heard horror stories about that one resulting in broken engagements.
2007-03-05 12:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would let him go but i wouldn't want him to go because i know he'd enjoy it more than i would if i went to one. it'd be up to him. but if he knew me the way i hope the man i marry does, he wouldn't go. i will have a bachlorette party, definitely, it wil be wild, but i'm not big on strippers....i think it's the idea of a man wearing a shiny thong that kinda grosses me out, so they will be excluded if at all possible!!!
2007-03-05 12:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by rubydoobydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a bachelor party should be a nice dinner in my home with a few of my closest friends. Perhaps make a couple home videos of then making toasts.
So, no pornography. Sorry.
2007-03-05 12:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't LET him do anything...I am not his mother nor am I trying to be...Do I mind if he goes to the strip club...Nope....The only people who worry about their men going to strip clubs have
A...never been to one...if you have you know that there is actually very little contact between the man and the stripper.
or
B....Don't trust your man...in that case if you don't trust them why would you marry them???
I am having a bachelorette party and I know it will be wild...We will probably end up at the strip club and hell who knows if I end up there on amateur night I might just get up on stage myself depending on how much Ive had to drink!!!!!
2007-03-05 12:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Persons of Character, who dearly love and respect the person with whom they are to marry would not even entertain the THOUGHT of going to any place that advertises, promotes, or openly discredits loving loyal and committed relationships.
It would not even be brought up in casual conversations.
030507 7:53
2007-03-05 12:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let him if that's all that he did, just go and watch and no touch
2007-03-05 12:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and fortunately for my country, we do not have such things.
2007-03-05 12:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋