I have been wanting to tell her that i love her but im scared that if she doesnt love me back then i feel as if our relationship is going to be aquired. I have a good friend thats helping me i just want other advice as well. Wat should i do
2007-03-05 12:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if thats the way that you feel about her you should tell her. She might feel the same way, she just might feel too shy to say it. I was afraid to tell my husband that I loved him and when I finally told him he said it back.
2007-03-05 12:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know this at the end of a conversation in a "good night" kind of way and not give her a chance to respond; if the feeling is mutual, you're golden. Here's the thing, if it's mutual and she doesn't let you know right away, you're still golden if she doesn't immediately start acting a bit "off". If there is even a little "improvement", she feels the same and will voice it on her own. But don't go saying it every day for every reason; just say you enjoy being open with someone like her and it doesn't have to be the same with her.
2007-03-05 20:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by InnoScentz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, and want to tell her, then tell her. There's no use in hiding your feelings. However, telling someone you love them shouldn't be done if all you want is to hear it back. She may feel the same but not feel comfortable yet in telling you that. Sometimes it's just nice to know that the person you're with feels great about you, and can be very encouraging. Just feel out the situation... if you're telling her for selfish reasons (to hear it back, to get sex, whatever) then you shouldn't do it... but if love is what you truly feel for her, it's all right to tell her.
2007-03-05 20:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly mean it, then say it. If she doesn't love you back then either she isn't feeling the same or you are wasting your time. Five months is plenty long enough to get to know someone well enough to feel that way, though it is different for everyone.
2007-03-05 20:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by BURT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait another 2 months at the earliest...besides whats the rush...who cares, so you love her, doesnt change anything if she knows that right. besides you say 'i love you' next thing you know she is working her end to pester you about this and that...
but when your ready, do what i do, or did at least...ask her..."did i ever tell you that i love you?" judge her reaction to this...if she is all excited go on and say, "well, i do" if she looks like she could care less, just say "oh, ok" and move on....
2007-03-05 20:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you deeply care for her..give her some more time, but make sure that you tell her first. I'd say on your 7th month together.
2007-03-05 20:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by amy_da_cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋