Ok so my little sister(just turned six) had her b-day party at a gymnastics place, we had been there before for her friends b-days. The guy in charge of the party remembered me from a past party where we talked some and flirted and stuff. This time he was even more flirty and we hung out more, he and my cousin threw me in a foam pit(they didn't believe me when I told them I’d already been in twice). He was also doing back flips into the foam pit, which he hadn't done at the other party (showing off or just having fun?) I had SO much fun being with him. Now all I can think about is him, it took me an hour to get to sleep last night because I couldn't stop thinking about him. I left a message at the gym with my number so he could call me. Did I do the right thing? Was he really interested or was he just being nice cause it was my sister’s party? Help!
2007-03-05 12:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by zippy7766 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A big detail i need to add. Most of my friends said i should not have done this because i am 16 and he is 20. to me 4 years is not a big diffrence. was it a bad thing to do?
2007-03-05 12:07:20 · update #1
And just for future refrence, I am a *HUGE* believer in abstinence.
2007-03-05 12:13:53 · update #2
Ok, last detail. My mom has already oked it. she said as long as we aren't doing it she doesn't have a problem with it.
2007-03-05 12:16:17 · update #3
The fact that you're sixteen and he's twenty may be a problem, but it depends on him and on your parents. For example, I dated someone 21 when I was 16, but my parents liked him. Plus, he was attending a community college and still living at home. So it wasn't like he was out on his own and trying to take advantage of me. I'm pretty sure it's illegal for him to have sex with you, in case you're wondering.
I don't think it's a big deal at all that you called him. Guys like it when women ask them out. If he doesn't call you back, it's probably because you're 16, and I wouldn't take it personally. Either way you should be proud you had the guts to go for what you wanted!
2007-03-05 12:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Celestial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sixteen. he is twenty. therefore, its illegal untill you are 18. he should know this too. dont risk getting both of you in trouble.
2007-03-05 20:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you did he's probably very much interested as much as you
2007-03-05 20:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he calls you then you know he is interested
2007-03-05 20:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋