i love her very much and im worried i will hurt cant her virgnity be taken away some other way where it will not hurt her. like maybe we can go horseback riding and then do it? she tells me its okay and i tried once and her face scrunched up in pain and i stopped and she said to continue and she covered her face with a pillow so i wouldnt see her pain LOL! sorry i know i sound like a puss i hope someone understands
2007-03-05 11:56:15 · 6 answers · asked by wq e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol you guys are just a bunch of nutter butters
2007-03-05 12:02:42 · update #1
lol, that's sweet, really.
forget about that whole horseback riding thing, it's a myth. yeah it can happen, but it's not like you get on a horse your cherry authomatically pops or soemthing.
think of it this way: it'll hurt her first time, but after that you can make it up to her all the other times by making her feel really, really good!.
2007-03-05 12:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you sound like a standup guy for not desirous to intentionally harm her. She's a fortunate female! She in all probability isn't mendacity approximately wanting you; intercourse is extra desirable than basically a actual courting, there's a sturdy emotional bond in touch that she has chosen to share with you. for many women persons, it hurts somewhat badly the 1st time! my boyfriend replaced into precisely an analogous way with me; I almost had to rigidity him. We took it VERY slowly; push till it harm, then wait till it did not, then push slightly extra. I nonetheless have faith it replaced into nicely extremely worth the soreness (by potential of how, it does not harm in any respect after the 1st couple of circumstances!) whilst you're the two waiting for such an emotional dedication, then proceed, yet crawl. it is going to provide up hurting finally. particularly, communicate along with her! tell her your fears! she'll delight on your worrying and honesty, and could attempt that might actually assist you're making it much less painful for her. finally this may be a pleasing adventure, the two bodily and emotionally, for the two certainly one of you. sturdy success!
2016-10-17 08:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by thedford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very sweet for you to be concerned about your girlfriends feelings. you should just take it slow. Don't stick your penis in all the way. After she feels comfortable with that gradually slip it all the way in. God Bless!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 12:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by akarijai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww...i understand her feeling....i faced the same situation before...well, you can go real slowly and don't paced up...just be gentle and ask her to say if she is in pain, so you can go slower....good luck
2007-03-05 12:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by gardenOfTheLife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, dont hate me for saying this, but i can help
im just playing
2007-03-05 12:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll help!
2007-03-05 12:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋