Guy problem?!?

Question

i like this guy, but nobody knows, not even my super best friend. he sits next to me in math, and in frount in science. what should i say to him? i dont really like talking to guys i like cause in the past, i just would say somethin mean, or put him down.Help ME! anything'll help. how do you get guys 2 like you, or find out if they like you

oh ya, and in math, he was supposed to sit somewhere else, cause we have that seating chart thing, and he like moved right next to me, he got my friend to move, is that a sign?

Answer 1

i think you should just find out things that he likes and start talking to him about stuff like that. Then talk to his friends and get on their good side. Then start to plant the seed start w/ ur best friend. finally it will get to him but never stop talking to him that is the main key! Good Luck!

Answer 2

The easiest way to find out if they like you is ask, of course. Other ways to feel out the situation are to suggest hanging out, or make some flirtatious comments and see how he reacts.

You can't really "make" a guy like you. All you can do is be yourself, and hope he likes who you are. Don't change who you are around him, because if he falls for what you're *trying* to be, he's not really falling for you. You can be suggestive in comments and compliments, and hope he takes the hint, or you can tell him you like him and he can decide if he feels the same.

Relationships are hard, especially when you're first trying to initiate them. All you can do is try, when you see something you want. It's good to get some practice talking to guys, especially if you don't like talking to them.

Remember, you have the choice as to how you talk to them, and behave around them. If you don't like how you tease or utilize being mean, then choose to change your tactics. By acknowledging that you are rather negative in these situations, you are a step ahead in a sense, because you can stop yourself and choose a nicer, softer way to be around guys you like.