I like this guy that I work with and I am too shy to make the first move. Is there anything you can suggest for me to do to let him that I'm interested?
2007-03-05 11:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by cathysue785 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like this guy that I work with and I am too shy to make the first move. Is there anything you can suggest for me to do to let him that I'm interested?
P.S. I'm not looking if you think if it is a good idea or not to date a coworker.
2007-03-05 12:27:12 · update #1
You will probably have to learn the hardway but it's just never a good idea to date someone you work with. If the relationship ever goes bad where will you go? Do you quit and find a new job or do you spend your time dodging him all day. I guess we all have to learn it luckly I'm a fast learner.......
2007-03-05 11:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not generally advisable to go out with a coworker. If you want to show interest...look him in the eye and smile.
To cut to the chase..tell him that you find him attractive.
2007-03-13 12:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not that much you can do to get him to ask you out but try this. do you have a friend out your work that can ask if he likes anyone? then she can tell you if he does or doesn't. you could get is address and send him a teddy bear or flowers asking if he would like to go out or not. why be shy when it comes to guys? there people too! be bold and do it girl! sometimes guys need a push in the right direction!
2007-03-05 11:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for drinks. Invite a few other people, too, at first. If he comes, great. Next time, invite just him. :)
2007-03-13 03:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a few ways to show your intreasted first thing is eye contact lot's of it ,mabey a few friendly smiles. 2nd if he hands you something grab it so you's touch and pause for a few seconds. try to strick a conversation that also helps no matter what it is. good luck i hope these help.........
2007-03-05 11:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating co-workers is not a good idea.If and when you break up one of you will want to quit your job.At the very least,it's awfully awkward.
2007-03-05 12:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you are ust like me.. i have a huge crush on a coworker too, get back at me when u get an answer lol
2007-03-05 11:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by chanoah_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋