i have been datting this girl for 2 yrs. all along she has been talking with her ex he went to jail and she was calling him behind my back. everytime we argue she leaves and doesnt come back for a day or 1week or whatever. usually just to her familys but this time she left once again but went to Florida. 1000 miles away from me. she says she loves me but every little arguement does she really have to leave,and this time pretty much move to florida? she has been there almost 2 weeks what should i do ?
2007-03-05 11:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Biggen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show her the door permantently.... i would laugh at her for doing that!
Send her back with her jailbird.
2007-03-05 11:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she is doing is pretty much running away from her problems, and if she really loves you the way she says ,she would want to talk it out calmly when you guys argue and she shouldn't of been calling her ex boyfriend behind your back and all that is just showing you is that she isn't going to keep an open and honest relationship and since she was doing it behind your back she must be hiding something from you and it isn't your fault she left to Florida, she's the one that decided to go over there and if she did love you she would of consulted you first and talked things out with you as a couple because that is what you are.
2007-03-05 19:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND A NEW GIRLFRIEND ASAP!!Who does she think she is always taking off when your relationship needs her imput the most.Why would you want to be with someone who isn't stable enough to make you feel secure in your relationship with them?and why are you waisting your time waiting for someone who clearly doesn't care much or she wouldn't be so far away doing god knows what right!I'm sure your better then that and i know you deserve better than this because everyone does.Find a woman that can resolve the issues and stick around for the good and the bad or really is there a point? good luck
2007-03-05 19:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like too healthy of a relationship to me. My opinion is it's a bit immature...seems like she's running away from her problems rather than trying to solve them. Unless you are happy and ok with this...I would sit her down and talk to her and tell her that you don't like what she's doing. It's not really fair to you that she leaves and comes on her own terms. I would try to find another girl that will respect and love you and try to solve problems rather than hide. Goodluck!
2007-03-05 19:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let...this...girl...go!!!! She sounds like nothing, but bad news. Secret, games and lies seems to be the only thing she is truely about. Communication is something you don't have either. It may be hard to let go, but when you do and you start see this relationship with a clear head. You will be so glad you did.
2007-03-05 19:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me this guy needs to tell the whole reasons why i leave. ya i'm running away from my problems. but i'm tired of catching him talking on the computer with his ex and arguing with her(the ex he was with for 5 yrs. and has a 6 yr. old with) in the very bigginning i talked to my ex who was in prison 2 x's. but the whole timed i've with biggen i have not slept with another person. he has slept with his ex 3 x's. and its when i leave him. i do it to see if he loves me or her. and yes the past 6 months i've talked to my ex, a couple of times since he got of prison. but the whole reason i left this time is because i'm tired of him dragging me out of our room, him being mad at me and not telling me whats wrong, and i'll bother him til were he goes nuts, but he won't tell me y hes so angry to treat me that way. i was gonna come back home. but he came clean and told me he slept with her again. i love him to death. he is my love in my heart. me and my ex are so done and over with. but him and his ex still continue to play games with each other. so he keeps reattaching her., but i wonder if its my fault because i leave.but i leave when it has to do with her and i can't stand it so i leave.
2007-03-06 14:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by pocah_23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. She sounds like she doesnt know what she wants
2007-03-05 19:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find you a good woman who knows what she wants.
2007-03-05 19:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋