Should i marry to a muslim guy?

Question

hi I'm melody and i'm christian. i met a guy 4 years ago and he is muslim, we didin't see each other, by the way we really love each other and he loves me from all his hearth. he keeps saying that if i marry him he will do anything for me. don't think that i'm stupid, i want marry him because he doesn't me because of my money, look or for using me. he loves me for my self and nothing else. by the way we both have strict family about our relogion. the problem is, he wants from me to change my religion to islam, because he thinks that in future we'll have alot of religion problem. He also respect to my religion very much. But i dont want to change my religion to islam but i'll respect his religion too. i keep saying that we won't have any religion problem and i'll try to do everything for him, because i love him. Now i am in that situation that i should choose one between my religion and HIM, and i can't forgot both of them i want both at the same time. Please tell me what i have to do

Answer 1

Just give up Christianity and convert to Islam. That you're even THINKING of marrying this guy shows that you don't respect what you claim to believe in.

Just know this: Even if you convert to Islam, when you start having and raising children, there WILL be something inside you that tells you that your kids should be raised Christian, or at least, exposed to its beliefs and traditions, such as Christmas and Easter.

Marriages between two people of differing belief systems--especially beliefs as different as Christianity and Islam are--ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS have problems related to religion sooner or later.

This is why, as a Christian, you should have been taught not to be "unequally yoked with unbelievers." (2 Corinthians 6:14).

Answer 2

You know what, If he really loves you for who you were, he would have never ask you to change your religion. You are not asking him to change his religion because you don't see it as a problem the only thing that matters to you is that you love him.
Trust me, I know what I am talking about. His parents will never accept you as a christian and sooner or later you will have to change you religion to please them. In the other hand, your parents would never let know become a muslim.
One advice, move on, and let go or you will regret it much later.
He can't let know practice freely your religion then he does not deserve you because in love there is no condition.
I know it is hard for you but with time you will understand that you did take the right decision. ( If you are still not sure, then ask your parents what they think about it) Good luck

Answer 3

im in the same situation, only im not gettin married
i like a muslim and im hindu
my parents would killll me if I married him
but anyways
if your parents are ok can deal with it-somewhat AND only if you guys are both willing to keep your religions and respect them and by that I mean understand them even if ur not one of them because that will make ur relationship stronger.
If you guys aren't willing then it wasn't meant to be.
hope tht helps

Answer 4

According to the Koran, it is perfectly acceptable for a Muslim to marry a nonMuslim, so long as the person is one of the People of the Book (which all Christians are). (sura An-Nisa (The Women))

It also says in the Koran that that it is unacceptable to force someone's conversion. (sura Al-Baqara (The Cow))

Answer 5

No don't marry him. I don't hate Muslim's but you must convert to Islam you tell him to convert to yours, He wont and you find out it is all about Islam with Muslim's.They want there way or no way,

Answer 6

tell him that its your right, and if he really loves then he should respect your decision and keep your religion.

If not, i think you already know the answer to that.

Answer 7

You cant choose a man over God. period. Would you turn your back on Jesus who died for your sins just to be with a guy?
I dont see it.