2007-03-05 11:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by Shantel T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you need to do is educate yourself, go to webmd.com
The second thing you need to do is, decide if this is really what you want to do? Because you really should wait, there's alot of reason why you should wait and very few reasons why you shouldn't. NEVER EVER let someone pressure you into doing anything your not completely comfortable with.
Guy's are generally dogs, who will take from you what they can and leave you.
There's the chance of getting pregnant, and alot of diseases a guy could have.Talk to an adult you trust, like your mom, a school counselor, or another adult female. I know this isn't the answer your looking for but maybe it may save you from the heart ache of telling your mom, your pregnant, or have some disease.
Hope this help, email me if you need too
2007-03-05 11:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bleed and it hurt like heck. Thankfully it was with a guy that I loved and who was willing to take things slow and let me adjust. The pain can be lessened by stretching the vagina before hand and using lube. These days it's uncommon to bleed because females are a lot more active and the chances are greater of the hymen being torn before hand. My advice: take is slow and wait for the right person. :)
2007-03-05 11:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by DPC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It differs from person to person really. Some people bleed when their hymen breaks others dont. It just depends!! As far as the pain....it depends on the guy. If he's big then probably. I know it hurt my first time. Just make sure there is plenty of foreplay because you need to be really "lubricated" espically if its your first time so it wont hurt as bad. You can also use a lubricant such as ky jelly or etc and dont forget the condom!!! good luck and be careful!!
2007-03-05 11:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by ajnshane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't alwz bleed u usually only bleed if you didnt brake the skin that covers yr vj yet most girls breakit when using a tampon for the first time
Yes it does hurt for the first fewe times
2007-03-05 11:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard it does but it depends on a lot of things. some girls wear tampons so they will more then likely not bleed (but it still depends) if you dont wear tampons and you have intercourse it might hurt and you may bleed if the guy is big enough. i have heard a lot of people say their first time hurt but hey thats life, i guess it gets better
2007-03-05 11:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes it hurts and u bleed but it depend on how hard u have sex for the first time go slow so it doenst hurt as much
2007-03-05 11:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by tootsiebaby214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my 1st time, i didnt bleed, it was so uncomfortable, it hurt a little, use lube ok, and i never wanted to do it again. but now i crave it lol, it does get better after the 1st or 2nd time :):) have fun :)
2007-03-05 11:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sammmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women bleed a little bit and sometimes for most it does hurt at first but if your needing to ask this maybe you aren;t ready yet.
2007-03-05 11:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you bleed, and it might hurt for a couple of seconds or it will hurt longer if he isn't gentle with you. be careful and remember to be safe.
2007-03-05 11:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone bleeds.. because the skin that is broken when u have sex could also be broken when u strech... and ya it hurts... for the first few times you have sex... u really just need to take things slow your first time...
2007-03-05 11:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋