Well my girlfriend and I just recently broke up after 11 months of dating and I must say that it hurts like HELL! I miss her every second of every hour and what makes it harder is that she goes to my school, and it's small as hell and I have two out of four classes with her. I am bipolar and I let it slip out of control and my temper and attitude turned the relationship into chaos. I would have manic episodes, but most of the time I was just using my sickness as a crutch because I was being a douche. My friends say to act like her best friend and let her date other people. After a while, they will break up and hopefully she will realize how much I mean to her and vice versa. Well, I need help and advice please! I'm not giving up on her and I mean that!
2007-03-05 11:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on beyatch! KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG!
2007-03-05 11:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by someone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the absolute best advice i can give you is to give up on her. Shes your ex girlfriend for a reason, so let it stay that way. Ive been in your shoes before, many many people have, and it does hurt like HELL. but you have to understand that there are other girls out there, possibly better girls out there. My thing is dont even give them the satisfaction of them knowing you want them back. She left you once, she will leave you again. Honestly, time will solve your broken heart, and everything happens for a reason, find yours. AND FORGET ABOUT HER.
2007-03-05 19:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give it some time since you said you weren't being as sweet as pie then you need to think about what you will do right this time if you win her back. you also need to apologize for being a jerk and mean it. it sounds like there is some obessiveness there which doesn't sound healthy. if you have some depression issues you need to seek mental help and counseling before trying to get in a relationship again so what happened before won't happen again. just give her some time if it's meant for you to be together again it will happen on it's own time
2007-03-05 19:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel im bipolar too and breaking up hurts like hell well just let her knwo ur sorry for anythign u have done in the past and u really want her back and just tell her how u feel and just try to take deep breaths when u feel a mood swing comign on
2007-03-05 19:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by tootsiebaby214 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do anything stupid like sleep with her mom or sister(s). The best friend thing is a bit of a joke. If it was meant to be, give it time!
2007-03-05 19:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by B H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋