ok this girl i like and she likes me (were 13) write notes like all last week but then i told her that i was jealous of this boy she always hangs with cuz she use to like him and her friends said that she likes him more and me only as a friend i told her i was kind of jealous and she got mad at me cuz she only likes him as a friend and i told her that i was sorry n not 2 be mad at me
She usually comes and talks to me or even just "Hi" i told her to write back and she didnt do ne 1 of those things she wont even look at me wat do you think is wrong?
2007-03-05 11:01:07 · 24 answers · asked by .:*MusicIsMyLife*:. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is upset because you jumped to conclusions. Another major thing is that you listened to other people instead of talking to her and asking what her perspective is. And to tell her that is kind of wrong. You need to go and talk to her and say you're sorry about jumping to conclusions and believing what other people say.
2007-03-05 11:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you dont trust her. You just suddenly get jealous over something that isnt even happening. You said you thought she liked the guy but it turned out she didnt. And what do her friends know? they cant exactly tell what her feelings are so you shouldnt have listened to them. Try to show her that you are honestly sorry. Try writing a big card. Write sorry on the cover and say inside that you are really sorry and will trust her feelings towards you and the others around her. Also say that you will make sure next time if there is really something going on with her and someone else before judging her and saying you are jealous. Put the card in her locker and then maybe at the end of the day, meet up with her and give her a hug saying that you are truly sorry.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-05 19:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Here I come I am cinnamon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even drive yet. You have tons of time! I think that she is overreacting. She's also a 13 year old girl though too. You guys are still young and should probably stay friends. My best relationships were with really close friends of mine. My advice, concentrate on school more and but make friends on the side. If you and her get together, great! If not, There are tons of other girls out there who would love to be with you! Stay friendly. (not that you haven't heard that yet...)
2007-03-05 19:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Film_babe2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Kay, she could either like you too (which most likely isn't the case, but it could be) and is embarrassed or upset because of something that you don't know, or she could just feel awkward around you because you like her. So when you guys talk or hang out, the entire thing will feel weird. There's a lot of possibilities here. I would just talk to her. Don't follow her around and get all desparate, but see why she is mad at you. And if she isn't gonna be your friend anymore, then that shows that you need to move on.
Good Luck!
2007-03-05 19:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by banney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont talk to her or look at her for like a week or two and she will get mad that u arnt lookin or talkin to her nd she will start to talk 2 u........ trust me im a 13 year old girl
2007-03-05 19:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong..she doesn't think of you as a boyfriend.
just be her friend. just don't obsess about her..it ain't worth it..i'm telling you.
in fact, if you can get another girlfriend..your stock with this girl will go way up.
You are young and are going to have to find out that most girls are not worth the effort you put into them. Just wait until you find a girl that really digs you! Until then..don't sweat it soo much.
2007-03-05 19:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her that you just don't want to lose her....say with a girl as beautiful as you i have a right to be jealous, i don't feel that I am good enough for you but I will try cuz I value your love.....it works 99.9% of the time!!!!
2007-03-05 19:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is childish, or just trying to use you to make the other boy jealous so he will beg her back. First tell her your sorry she feels that way, and THEN act like she doesnt exist, start talking to other girls and sit back and watch her grind her teeth and foam at the mouth.
2007-03-05 19:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're a damn sissy. All that chick will do is take your money and leave you with blue balls. Get through school, go to Iraq and kill terrorists. If she's still there wne you come back then worry about her. Otherwise, get a mail order bride from Russia and make her your sex slave.
2007-03-05 19:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by thigpen82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude sry to say...you probably said the thing that puts some distance between the two of you....the only advice that i can give you at your age, is that its all trial and error....and girls are gonna be hypersensitive...to be honest with you man...just enjoy your time at that age...sure have some interest in girls but dont invest any real time or thought into it...besides, "the one who cares the least gets the most"...if you understand that attitude, you will get plenty of "vag" in the future
2007-03-05 19:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋